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lilofdevine

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  1. Am a bit confused,or let me be honest am very confused, they are married for two years and have two kids? as if thats not tough enough (timeline wise) she isnow 8 months pregnant with another mans baby? ohh my God!!!!!!. How is this possible? your timeline doesnt make much sense to be honest.

    As regards advice,i would say he should get a lawyer and look at his options.

    Let me shed some light to your confusing. My friend did not come in to the country through a k1 visa. He came in on a visitors visa and/or a student visa. I am not sure which one. Anyway, during his time here he married a woman and was married to her about 2 years but there was some complications with his application. Apparantly they felt the marriage was not valid. This cause massive delays. During this time they divorced and he met another woman. I personally believe he did not give himself enough time. He fell in love with his wife and they began the process all over again. They had been together 6 month to a year before they got married. Honestly this woman is a baby factory, she has 2 kids from a previous marriage, 2 kids with my friend and 1 on the way from another. I hope this clears up your confusion.

  2. I have a really close friend that married a US Citizen and had two kids with her. They have been married about 2 years. My friend caught her cheating on him with another man. They are currently separated because she left him with the two kids and moved in with this other man. To top it off, she is now 8 months pregnant with the other man's child. She left him with the two kids and said she did not want any part of the marriage anymore.

    He has to go back to immigration in February 2010 to get his permanent green card. He currently has the temporary one and he is scared that this may keep him from getting his permanent green card. He wants to file for a divorce and full custody of the children but he is not sure how this would effect him.

    Does anyone have any advise for him?

  3. :thumbs: First I want to give you a thumbs up! :thumbs: You are an amazing woman, this is something you are going through and all you can think about is your in-laws and how they will accept the situation.

    From reading other members advise, it seems everything will be ok. I dont think you should sare anything with them until you know for sure. If it comes down to you not being able to conceive, I would suspect that they should be more concerned about your well being first. Enjoy your trip

  4. Maggie congrats on your arrival this comming week.

    happy saturday!!!! i just got back an hour ago from seeing the messengers with my son....it was scarweeeee lolol

    My first thought was "whats so scary about yahoo messenger?" :lol:

    I thought the same thing. Must be something in the west coast air! Where are the rest of the Calif girls? I beleive I'm the only one in WA (besides Fouad who doesn't hang out here much).

  5. Nice topic, I basically did the same. We would meet online everyday for over a year. It was rough for him because of the difference in time. So he would be at the internet cafe until 2 or 3 am. Then I would buy calling cards by the dozen so that we can talk everyday before we went to bed. Extremely costly but all worth it now. I kept myself busy with church & moving and work. For the most part, now that I look back, it was hard but smooth.

  6. :dance::dance: Hey my visa buddy, here we gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

    RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

    UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

    READYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

    May your reunion be as sweet as mine. I'm still having flashbacks, hahaha Enjoy my friend and I will speak with you in about a week

  7. :dance::dance: My Hani is home. We are so happy. He arrived at JFK airport on Saturday. His flight arrived from Casa at 4:00 and he walked out of the customs by 6:00. For the most part, he was tired and very hungry.

    We rested at my mom's home and then we traveled yesterday to North Carolina. We arrived last night around 7pm and my home was packed with people that supported us. They had ballons and welcome home signs and streamers. It was truly a surprise and a great way to welcome him home.

    Now we are so excited to begin the next step. Picking a wedding day. I will keep you guys posted. Thanks for all your support.

  8. I have a question for you guys, I thought that the visa is only good for 90 days. Hani told me that his visa is stamped for July 29, 2007. He told me that the visa is good for 6 months. Is this something new or are we going crazy

  9. :dance::dance::dance: HEY MY FRIEND SORRY I TOOK SO LONG TO POST BUT YOU ALREADY KNOW WHERE MY HEART IS. YOU ARE VERY SPECIAL IN MY BOOK AND I AM SO VERY HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS.

    WHAT WE ALL NEED HERE AT VJ IS TO HAVE A FAMILY REUNION. GOOD IDEA HUH!!! WE SHOULD ALL COME TOGETHER FOR 1 WEEKEND AND JUST LOVE EACH OTHER BECAUSE TRULY I BELIEVE THAT YOU GUYS ARE FAMILY!!!! MAY GOD GIVE YOU ALL YOUR WISHES.

    I WILL LET YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS ON MONDAY AT THE EMBASSY.

    :dance::dance::dance: HEY MY FRIEND SORRY I TOOK SO LONG TO POST BUT YOU ALREADY KNOW WHERE MY HEART IS. YOU ARE VERY SPECIAL IN MY BOOK AND I AM SO VERY HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS.

    WHAT WE ALL NEED HERE AT VJ IS TO HAVE A FAMILY REUNION. GOOD IDEA HUH!!! WE SHOULD ALL COME TOGETHER FOR 1 WEEKEND AND JUST LOVE EACH OTHER BECAUSE TRULY I BELIEVE THAT YOU GUYS ARE FAMILY!!!! MAY GOD GIVE YOU ALL YOUR WISHES.

    I WILL LET YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS ON MONDAY AT THE EMBASSY.

  10. Good morning all

    Happy Thursday

    Happy Thursday guys!

    I hope everyone has a good day!

    JP- how were your wings last night?

    Bosco- you were right! :whistle:

    MBP- feelin' pretty good huh? Congratulations!

    Jenn- I miss you!

    Peezey- I miss you too!

    WOM- I love your pictures as usual... I don't know where you get them but they crack me up.

    Sarah

    I loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Outback! I had a blast! Went out for dinner, smoked argileh, and watch all the american idol rejects! Did you find a place?

    MBP - Got a date set yet?

    Peezey - I drove by that nail salon yesterday, it does look really nice!

    Hope everyone has a good day!

  11. :energetic: :dance: WOW So many things go through your mind the day before the interview. Who will I tell? How will we act? Is everyone going to be happy for us? Well one thing for sure is that the first people I will contact is my family and I'm not talking about my blood family, I am talking about my family here at VJ. Could not have mde it this far without you guys.

    May God have his way at this interview and all the interview to follow behind us. Inshalla I will post when I hear from Hani

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