aura009

You didn't save a copy on your computer?  Then yes, fill out another one, sign it and just email it to your spouse.  

My answers in bold and red:
 
 

Here is our review. I might have missed a few things in the beginning since I was not present at the interview but I tried to add as much detail.  Thank you VJ family for your tremendous amount of support in the past few months. I plan on sticking around for as long as possible to help anyone who needs it based off my experience.
My husbands interview was scheduled for July 14th 8:30 am. He arrived there around 7:15.
Around 7:45 he was asked to get in the queue. The guards requested to see his passport and appointment letter. He explained to them that since our case was expedited we did not get an appointment letter and he only has an appointment confirmation that was emailed to him after we scheduled his interview online. They were okay with that and let him in without any issues. The immigrant visa applicants were separated from the non-immigrant visa applicants at this point. After his documents were checked and put in order by the staff he was asked to follow the red line and eventually was asked to be seated until his token number is called. He waited for about 35 minutes before his token number was called. An African American CO  greeted him in Punjabi and asked him the following questions:
Who is calling you?
How did you meet?
Love marriage or arrange marriage?
Who arranged it?
How did your families know each other before?
Where did you go on your honeymoon?
When was the last time you and your wife were together?
What does she doe for a living?
After that CO did some typing and said congratulations your Visa has been approved!
The CO was very warm and friendly and even joked around when my husband told him that he is an orthodontist.
Over all it was a great experience. He was not asked for any call logs, WhatsApp messages or pictures. Surprisingly they did not even ask for the w2 and AOS , even though we received a checklist for that!

Whether the police already came or not that does not matter. When you apply for a PCC from the passport office, the passport office has to initiate the  inquiry. The passport office has to request the inquiry and it goes through several branches.
On Indian passports just like your parents name is listed on the passport your spouses name gets listed too. So if your wife applies for a PCC as a married person they will ask her to get a new passport with your name on it as her spouse. I am just telling you these things based off my experience there are some people who said that they didn't have to get a new passport and others did. My husband made an appointment to apply for a PCC and they asked him to get a new passport first. Ask your wife to go to the passport office and inquire about this before she makes an appointment for the PCC. You won't know the whole process until your wife makes an appointment with the passport office and applies for a PCC. Forget about the PCC from the superintendents office it has nothing at all to do with the one you really need.

I am glad you did not have to go through that hassle. There seems to be no consistency between the PSK's in Punjab. They all have their own rules.

It's your choice.  Your wait at nvc will be several weeks.  Plenty of time to send the correct document and not create a delay for yourself.  Only trying to help but you can do as u wish😊 best of luck.

no need to wait, you can send the package and pay iv fees once available and do the form ds 260.

First, applying for an ITIN for a spouse living abroad is not simple at all.  Second, filing single instead of married does not cheat the government.  If anything, you over-pay your taxes when you do that.  NVC and the Consular officer don't care about this subject in the least.

I'm not a guy, but that's not important

I would do as the lady said. Send them a letter explaining and fill out the DS-260 with the correct information/name.