About my statement? I am positive. Utah is an option if you want the get a CR1. I don't know of anyone that has tried that yet.
Doesn't matter it you are Filipino. Get a CENOMAR (in your case it would be a CEMAR) and you will see that you are legally married in PH.
In all cases your biggest challenge will be CFO. But like @IWander said she would most likely get it, she would just have to beg, plead, and jump through hoops.
You will never get a ROM for your new marriage until you get a recognition of divorce. It is PSA now not NSO