elfinkel

Hi, 

Your last post was closed so I couldn't comment there. I just want to say that I was outraged by some of the comments directed toward you. As a fellow pregnant woman who is away from the father, I completely understand your anxiety about the birth and the fact that someone told you that having this anxiety might mean you are "unfit to be a mother" is infuriating (and how does that not violate TOS). The comments about your having a choice about being pregnant at this time and being able to prevent it were also extremely ignorant. How on earth would they know that? Anyways, you have my sympathy and support and as that one commenter said, pregnancy for her WAS a reason to expedite so keep trying! The people on this forum are helpful for the most part but sometimes I wonder where some of these commenters get their information from. Everyone seems to be the authority, when really no one knows what will happen you just have to try. Stay strong because it will work out in the end and congratulations on your little one