This website was very helpful with great advice and tips so I appreciate it very much. Just stay postive, patient and hopeful ... Don't give up & never be discouraged. Please - never let anyone tell you different. I know it's a long process but everything will turn out for the best in the end...Inshallah I'd like to say: Good Luck to all the couples going through this process... sending you good vibes, prayers, and positvity