We met on an online dating site as the suggestion of a friend. I went to The Philippines with my friend to meet her. We were married in her church there but without signing any paperwork in San Carlos City. I returned here after being with her family on Sipaway Island. She moved here. Soon after we began meeting with my church in regards to marriage counseling. We were married by a judge before having our wedding with our church. We found out in the process that we have a child due in November. I work part-time as a self-employed tax-preparer and full-time as a Wal-Mart associate.