Iran can be a very unpleasant place for non-Muslims, women in particular.
It’s always kind of pointless comparing your own situation to others, ‘ particularly when US military is involved, as there are some different rules for immigration.
You can ask for an expedite, but I’ve never heard of the White House getting involved in individual immigration cases.
I would also expect Iran’s rapidly worsening geopolitical status (on top of our already nonexistent diplomatic ties) to complicate and delay ALL immigration cases, yours included.