I'm 100% sure you will not get a meeting waiver. You would need to provide ample documentation from religious leaders, family, community leaders etc that meeting in person would violate long standing cultural traditions. I would guess that would attract way more negative attention than a visit.
Waivers for that one requirement are very rarely given. Not only is the burden of proof on the petitioner to show evidence that the meeting wouldn't be possible because of culture, USCIS will expect you to meet in a third country.