Absolutely not. In addition, although one "can" marry someone without ever having met in person, I strongly discourage anyone from doing that. Why create another red flag for your case?
Marriage is a huge commitment and step. VJ is FULL of stories by people who married someone they had met maybe once, and are not absolutely regretting that decision. After all, you wouldn't marry someone in your neighborhood sight unseen, would you?
And there is no chance you would get a waiver, sorry.