You can marry as soon as you want to, but the process takes up to two years. We recommend becoming an A student of all things US immigration, to help avoid pitfalls, delays, and unnecessary expenses. Read, research, ask questions.
You cannot arrive on ESTA with the intention to marry and stay (adjust status). He can petition you for either a fiancé or spousal visa. Each process takes around two years from start to finish.
NVC does not process or issue visas. What you are waiting for is to be documentarily approved and for the case to be sent to the consulate for an interview.
Some consulates have years-long backlogs for immigrant visa interviews, so you can’t really compare your case to others.
Very doubtful it will work, but it is free and no consequences for submitting another request.
So sorry for your loss, btw. Definitely include as much supporting documentation as you can- death certificate, etc. Perhaps you’ve already done that.
No one here is saying it’s not hard work- you don’t get to my age without realizing that. The point is with the hard work, there are boundaries. And name calling like that is one of them. It is abuse.
I would never be with someone who thought it was okay to call me names like that. Full stop. Maybe your experience with women is that they tolerate it.
I call BS on this. Maybe it’s an age thing, but at my age, no way would I tolerate being called an(removed) by a spouse, or anyone else for that matter. Would much rather be alone than with someone who treated me that way.
She cannot work remotely while visiting the US. She needs a work permit to work remotely at a Canadian job.
You seem to be full of misunderstandings about the difference between visiting and permanent residency?
Doesn’t seem too smart to plan a pregnancy/prenatal care/delivery for a person who will not have legal struts to be here through all of that. What’s the hurry? Why not just wait until she’s an LPR?
You need a lawyer, or someone competent to help with the process, if you cannot manage to get even the name of the visa applicant correct for the medical.
You have enough issues coming from Pakistan, these problems you created just make them worse.