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This dude seems more focused om getting a 10y GC than anything else with his marriage. Having sex with a wife that abuses him but is scared to death when not doing it? Reals of fraud.

wow!!!!!!!!! i came here and entered in a good faith marriage... i was in a relationship for 3 years before entering in that relationship that is why i care...getting a 10 year gc is not a big deal if you have evidences and everything....but i am still living and trying to improve and work on the relationship....

may be you might be comitting fraud that is why you think others are like that.....for your information i am not having sex anymore......and not planning kids but i have a doubth my wife is pregnent and npt telling me....doing sperm test is ritual in my community before getting married....have agreat life man!!!! fraud people doesn,t try to work on their marriages...instead they try to focus and advise others.

thank you all for answers.

I have no idea why i cant get abuse waiver. I was not just beaten but physically abused as well. I am seeing pcychologist for the mental damage i have suffered from being in this relationship. I had filed report... my office and boss knew it is happening with me because they ssee me with red eyes everyday ...spending sleepless nights.....i have office friends willing to testify for me... i have a joint checking account...and i can prove that only i was the one depositing cheques in that account and that is the only thing i have in this country...joint car insurance...joint health insuance....vacations photographs to different states....marriage ceremony more then 300 people were invited....my phycsical exams report showing that i give sperm test,,,,,and wanted to have child

.... my wife have good credit but sshe didnt add me to her credit card and i still have no credit ... I had told about the circumstances i am going through and some organizations are willing to help me out as well...including the polaris project...they are willing to testify that i asked for there help and i was blckmailed constantly.... she is in depression and i want to help her out...but it is damaging me..... i suspect she will try to deport me if i left her and do something with her self...that is why i just wnt to take things from her hand that she can deport me and try to have a family with her......what i knew is 75% of waiver cases are rejected.... and if i am deported back... if she becomes pregnent my child would suffer alot....

If you divorce and have proof that the marriage was entered to in good faith you can get a divorce waiver if you have not yet removed conditions on your greencard. Not sure what you mean by a "waiver for being battered" there is no such thing. Where in the immigration process are you? You have given no details

i have temporary green card . still have 14 months to expire that card. but i know if i divorce her she will write letters to uscis and all departments,,,, and besides that i stiill want marriage to worlk.... for battered spouse waiver you dont need to complete and wait for 2 years ,,,,

leave the house for a month! give yourself and your wife some time....dont be in rush....if she still want divorce then leave her,

my wife have mood seings. She is very controlling and blackmails me . for example today what she did was horrible. i went out and she wanted me to get back home early. what she messages nd is that she is going to report the police that her car is stolen...it is her car and
i am registered as a driver on her car insurance...i am working full time and will soon buy my own car....just got job before 5 months...these things happen everyday...she is very possesive and might be in depression ... and i am trying to help her out but this is unbearble.

if suppose i apply for waiver on battered spouse without divorcing her and i am currently living with her,,,, and suppose uscis refused it...wikk i still have chance to apply with my spouse after two years,,, i have no plans to leave my wife but i need little relaxation and freedon...

thank you for your help....