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Filing I-751 While Living Separately
Can I File Form I-751 Living Separately from My Spouse?
When you are originally a foreign national who came to the United States to marry a U.S. citizen or Lawful Permanent Resident (LPR), you will have already been through the process of getting a conditional green card. After two years, you must file Form I-751 with the United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) to petition to remove conditions on residence. Upon approval of your petition, you will be granted permanent residency without conditions.
The purpose of the conditional green card is to prove to USCIS that your marriage is still in good faith after the original two years are up. However, circumstances can happen in life and in your marriage that cause you and your spouse to separate. Maybe you do not want a divorce at this time, or maybe you still need to discuss the option of divorce with your partner.
It is important that you be upfront and honest throughout the entire process of filing Form I-751 with USCIS. Being truthful about the separation shows USCIS that you are trustworthy. If you withhold information or are dishonest about your separation, you could potentially be flagged for immigration fraud. You may lose your green card and your chance at future permanent residency. Honesty about your separation will only benefit you in the long run, especially since USCIS is not legally allowed to deny your petition on the mere fact that you are separating or have initiated a divorce.