I know. My point is that, you might face another round of extended AP with a CR-1. However, after re-reading your first post, I think it is clear that the issue is the ceremony. That is something we always advise members to avoid.
I completely understand your frustration because there is a real possibility that the K-1 will be denied......due to being too married for a K-1.
I think you will get a decision soon. I would probably wait another couple of months before making a final decision to marry. Or, as @Boiler said, you could sue them for a decision (which could go either way). Good luck.