Yeah you have a point. It's just hard to accept when you see other's approved less than 3months. And now been waiting for almost 5mos. i'm not expecting anymore. I just help myself busy and praying that God works for the right time to come for us. Eventually, we will be together with our love in jesus name amen. Have a faith and trust his will. So better, visit your love to lessen the difficulties of this whole process