I first met my future husband in 1990 in South Africa and he was a work colleague of my deceased husband. After a couple of years after my husband passed away he was visiting the USA and suggested we meet up for dinner. We shared our life stories and eventually were kicked out of the restaurant as they wanted to close. The next day we met again and continued our catch up. Long story short, later that year we became a couple but spent the next two years travelling back and forth between USA and South Africa. In 2016 we both moved to jobs in Nigeria to enable us to be together. We now travel around African for work, but are based in Lagos, Nigeria. We want to retire to the USA in about 3 or so years, with perhaps the option of us working part-time, to boost our Pensions. We are planning on getting married on July 4th 2019 in Dallas.