Here's the thing: both major parties use disinformation to prove their point. Such is American politics. I'd rather this robustness than the limp handshake of Europe and Australia, both continents I have lived in, and refuse to live in again. Places where there is an active pretense of civility that is not manifested in reality.
As citizens and LPRs, it's our job to be alert and cogent to that disinformation, and to be rigorous adjudicators. Is more than half the country racist, misogynistic, bigoted, blah blah blah? No more than any other country, and I've lived in a few. Heck, Australia is more racist than the US, in my experience. And the UK, where I spent a year, isn't too fond of 'Pakis' like me, as I was informed on the regular back in the 90s / early 2000s when I lived there.
I like Kamala. I don't mind Trump. The US is bigger than both.
TLDR; again, no-one is coming after the LGBTQ+ community. You would have been more in danger when Obama came into office against same sex marriage.