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interesting you can't delete your own content. Similar to wikipedia lol
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221g for Mother In Law
defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
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221g for Mother In Law
defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
correct, and the "interviewing officer" may have personal reasons for denial. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
welp points taken, apparently this forum has some limitations & censorship that most don't in 2025. I guess you approve of the cleavland baseball team that was forced to change their name also. I would have to bet you are not a supporter of President Trump. I'm in many other forums, like car repair and RV repair and everyone helps each other any way they can. Private message or otherwise. Sorry I'm not used to the different rules here. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
It was a link to my google drive, NOT an attachment , so you are wrong it was taking up any space in your mailbox! I will have to go into the docs I already sent you and get the details, it's extensive, I own 6 properties in multiple states, multiple sources of income and multiple w2, 1099's and investments and will have to list them all here at your request when I get a chance. I have 3 kids and a sick father who just got out of the hospital so I thought sending you the ACTUAL docs would of helped here, obviously not. Curious, are you getting paid by visajourney? Thanks -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
not the same? It's the same person, same docs, same MNL #, same final destination - correct? all that detailed information is in the docs I already sent to him. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
I sent you the actual 864 docs with all that information in great detail. I'm assuming you can't open them for some reason. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
yes I just private messaged you the actual 864 and 864a thanks -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
@appleblossom just tried to send you a pm with my 864 and 864a but you are blocking all messages.. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
@pushbrk refused to help me thru private messaging. the nature and sources are in the 864 and 864a which I didn't think is allowed to be posted here that's why i sent pm to @pushbrk but he refused to help. oh well. why NVC and the consulate can't communicate seemlessly in 2025 is ridiculous. It's all the same in the end. One hand doesn't know what the other is doing. Don't say you're documentarily qualified if your not. Very simple. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
I private messaged you the actual 864 and 864a docs with those sources. I didn't think VJ would allow that personal info here. If I'm wrong let me know and I'll just post it here. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
yes that was required to even get to the interview! which is what's so frustrating, first they say we are "documentairly qualified" then they lie and say we are not - basically indian givers. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
exactly , the only reason they are asking for something that's not even due yet is because they enjoy making peoples lives harder and they are jelous. Basically it's classic "bite off your nose to spite your face" attitude. If this continues, once a democratic president is back in office, the same thing will happen and we will get flooded with illegals due to this unfair beurocratic red tape process. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
which details do you need? can I private message you the actual docs? these are not "feelings" these are facts. And exactly why we have 20 million illegals in America. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
yes IRS transcripts: 2019 - $102k 2020 - $78k 2021 - 60K 2022 - 90k At the time these were submitted they only required up to 2021 because it was soo long ago. Is it our fault they delayed this for so long (probably on purpose in my opinion) . household size, my wife, me, 8yr old, 4 yr old and my 16 yr old step daughter naturalized us citizen with mom. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
ok yes they are getting the medical done. the primary sponsor? is that my wife? she has no job but we are married filing jointly so she owns half of everything? I will do the joint sponsor but I already did it as household member, guess I just have to do it over as joint.. Will try to get my taxes done but I didn't even get all the paperwork yet! these people are ridiculous asking for 2024, again done on purpose in my opinon. Annual income documentation is basically on the tax return? I have w2's and will have to talk to my accountant for more. passports are the only easy thing here. -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
everything they wanted, values of our houses (over 1.5 million no mortgages) bank accounts, mutual funds ($200k), tax returns showing at least 100K income. it's insane. do I need to be as rich as Trump to get my wife's mother here? Should I add in our new RV ? this is ridiculous -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
it's soo infuriating , public charge! I own 6 houses in 3 different states! no mortgages! they let literally millions of criminal public charges thru illegally (before trump) yet I'm trying to get my wife's aging mother here legally and it's a nightmare, it's really sickening. yes employed full time with my own business since 1991. We are well above the poverty line , in fact we are probably top 5% ers -
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defeedme replied to defeedme's topic in Bringing Family Members of US Citizens to America
i have both i864 and i864a fully filled out , i don't think they will allow it posted here because of all the sensitive data? -
I don't know what side of the bed this interviewer servant woke up on, but obvoiusly they have something against us. see attached denial. She was already "documentarily qualified" with all required tax returns, forms AND we went thru HELL to get a DNA test they required, which is a total money grab and waste of time.. it's NOT our fault they took over 5 months to get the info over to the embassay and schedule an interview! so now due to THEIR incompetence they are reqesting a 2024 Tax Return which is not even due for us until Sept! (we always go on extension) . On the Denial they also cross out "HOUSEHOLD MEMBER" and check "JOINT SPONSOR" - which as you correctly state above, is totally wrong according to their OWN RULES.. (I am the husband living in the same house) and we already filled out BOTH the i-864 and i-864A Affidavits of Support! Which was required to even get to this point! do we just print it out again? My income and our assets total around $2 million! If they are checking off Joint Sponsor as a requirement isn't that an error? how can it be corrected? can anyone give us any advice here? it's really infuriating it's been 2 years of hell. anything is appreciated. Best, Mike
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huh? well the u.s. government was very interested in my financial status when I did it for my wife.. In fact if I didn't meet basic income requirements we wouldn't even be chatting right now.. interesting - maybe (probably) because they got Married in the U.S.A. and she was already legally here, the financial thing doesn't come into play the same way with a K1.. although they did require the co/joint sponsor to show the income.. very confusing. But hey that's the U.S. immigration system lol
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thanks for the info - yes she has the in hand GC so I guess that means she can work without the EAD? So I guess the answer is there's really not much she can do until either the American files for divorce or apply for removal 90 days before in 2026 ? she just saw this and is going to try and sign up here..
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Hi all, any help here would be appreciated. My wife's friend is going through this ugly situation.. She came here on H-2B ,(educated long term worker for toyota in philippines), fell in love with American , court marriage in Florida 3/8/23 just before the H-2B expired. Approved i485 & i130 in Jan, got green card 1/3/24 expires 2026 EAD combo card issued, good until 2028 Has valid Philippines & Florida Drivers licenses. this is where it gets sketchy - they needed joint sponsor from San Francisco (filipina good friend). American is broke , ineligible to sponsor. American bounced first i765 / i485 check, had to redo everything after case rejection. 2nd time around she used money-order and finally went thru.. They just had big fight, she moved out. He will probably file for divorce, but hasn't yet.. She is 44, has family in the U.S. - She is working for Mitsubishi now in Florida and they offered to sponsor if things don't work out.. Also her good friend in San Francisco is willing to sponsor.. Any feedback on what she should do is greatly appreciated.