My husband and I met online and after emailing and phone calls and meeting several times we decided to get married. We began the daunting task of getting me a visa. I sold my home here and quit my job to move down with him and finally got employment authorization. Had three different jobs all of which were second shift which he didn't want me to do so ended up with no job. He was continuously emailing and staying in touch with his ex for no reason other then to be in contact with her. We had been married for over a year when I left and went back home. He emails me every day and tells me that he loves me but also tells me that he will keep on seeing his ex because that's the way he wants to live his life. Oh yea, his ex has remarried also.