Went as a guest to an all-inclusive in Negril. Met a bartender there and returned to JA two months later to stay with him. I think we both intended to just have some fun but things got a bit more serious and now I'm scrambling to get back to JA and he is applying for a B-2 that I expect he will not get and so the alternative is marriage because we have to find a way to be together *sigh*. Why can it it ever be easy...