It takes 10 days to get it by courier by DHL. You do have an option to pick it up in Kingston at the pick up window. It still will be 10 days to get it.
Regardless of what you believe about modern laws, when it comes to immigration, if you do not adhere to the requirements of child immigration they will not be issued a visa.
For starters the biological father has to give permission for child to leave the country. Also will need custody agreement from courts saying mom has full custody. That has to be addressed before you can address child’s immigration.
So which is it. You said you moved to Virginia in January 2023 and worked in New York bought your house and moved in November 2023 in New York and filed for citizenship in December 2023. Therefore your clock for New York residency started in November 2023.
so the problem is that you have to be a legal resident of the state you live in before you file N-400. Living in New York for one month does not establish residency. You need to google New York law on how many months you have to live in New York to be a resident.
File your AR-11 that you now live in New York.
I wholeheartedly believe that his wife is not going to cooperate. Furthermore. If your recently set-up IRS payment plan after he filed N-400 that is another issue.
It doesn’t matter you are classified VAWA for life. You still cannot make online inquires. Anytime you do, you will get this with a letter mailed to you saying you cannot make online inquires and to write to Vermont.
Marijuana is Federally illegal. He will have to disclose use and why at his medical. If it used for medical purposes then the MD will evaluate it. If is used for mental health purposes he may be referred to have another evaluation with a psychologist.
You can get your name changed with submitting original bc and marriage certificate. No other issues to change it. You don’t need new SSN to file for AOS. You keep the same number.