I went to FilipinoCupid to just chat about the Philippines since I wanted to get re-acquainted to my birth place (I had never been back in the PI since 1969). I was at the lowest point of my life with my family broken from a divorce when Joy pinged me. I thought it was a joke or a spam, and so I lightheartedly asked to be on YahooMessenger webcam. As soon as I saw her eyes, I was in love :)