Mary and I met online in 2017, and I traveled to meet her in Sri Lanka January 2018. We spent a month together, and became serious. I have since traveled to her four times, staying 30 days each visit. We were advised to pursue a K1 visa as it could be quicker, that did not turn out to be true.
I filed an exhaustive (exhausting) professionally prepared I-29F 09/14/2018. In April 2019 Mary had her interview at the Colombo Embassy. The CO sent a scribbled request for more info on my income and prior relationships. This was promptly sent. My income had just about doubled in the prior two years, so ??. And I have been married/divorced three times, and had previously brought a Philippina on fianc e visa, who decided she would not like to live here and returned to her family. As to that experience most of my records had been lost, and my memory had blotted it out, (I am 72 so erasing memories is fairly easy)
Mary and I had no additional info from the Embassy, so Sept 2019 I sent a query, which received a sort of auto reply. At the suggestion of the consultant I contacted my US Senator, and his office was quick to help. In November 2019 Mary was called to Colombo to answer a few questions When she arrived however a secretary handed her back her documents and said a visa could not be issues in this circumstance She was not afforded any explanation. Eventually a letter was forwarded by the Senator stating the visa was denied, but offering no reason, and my subsequent entireties have been ignored.
I traveled to Mary Dec 2019, and we decided to pursue the K3 and were married 01/03/2020. We are working without consultant on this, I have since retired and have the time. In trying to document bonafide marriage, I have tried to open a joint account at three banks, (in which I already have accounts) and have been denied as she is not present, or a legal resident. She has tried her bank in Sri Lanka and had the same answer.
Has anyone any advice on proving financial blending, (other than documenting the monthly budget I send?)