US Immigration from Philippines

My wife is from the Philippines, so our group is one of three that gets hurt by rediculously long time periods to get an available visa. Over ten years ago our Priority date was January 13, 2010, for the approved Petition to bring her Unmarried Son over the age 21 to our country. Now the Visa Bulletin shows that F2B (for children of Permanent Residents) has a May 1, 2009 Priority Date and F1 (for children of Citizens) has an April 1, 2009 Priority Date. This spread is only one month; however, ten years ago (and for a long time) being a Permanent Resident (F2B) was much better than being a Citizen ((F1). It used to be that the wait time was over one year worse if you were a Citizen; thus, we made the decision to leave my wife's status on the original Petition as being a Permanent Resident. In 2014 my wife Maria was awarded Citizenship, but we elected not to ask USCIS to change her status on the original Petition (why wait longer for her Son to get here)

Now the time is rapidly approaching when both categories will show our Priority Date for her Son is Available. Can any of you enlighten us on what we do when the Priority Date shows that Jan 13, 2010 is now being worked. Do we have to see that and then purposely ask the National Visa Center to activate his request for a Visa?, or will the NVC pull his file on their own (almost twleve years later) and activate it and contact us or him or both?

Assuming that the NVC will take action and notify her Son or my Wife, what is the next step? I went through all of this when I successfully got Maria here through a Fiance Visa, but I forgot what we have to do. Is there another form we have to fill out and submit. Do we go through again submitting Financial Affidavits and other things? Is it just a matter of the NVC sending a notice to his local US Embassy, and the Son calling to get an appointment for an Interview?

Another issue is that my wife and I moved to a different house in December 2015, but we never contacted any of the agencies (USCIS or NVC) to change our address. Her Son just moved into a new house in the Philippines two days ago, so I guess we need to alert one of them about his address change too. I don't know which government agency to contact about the two address changes, or how to go about notifying them. I tried calling the NVC on Friday, but they never answer the phone. I reached USCIS Call Center, and asked them, but they were not too sure. All they could tell me was the Petition was in the NVC, so I likely had to contact them.

Thank you in advance for whatever help you can be with these questions.

Hi! I m from the Philippines. My wife and I married last October 2018. We just filed I-485 together with the other documents last Monday. My passport expired months ago and would like to renew it. But first my country needs a ROM (Report of Marriage) before renewing a passport. My problem here is Philippines do not recognize same-sex marriage. How do I go about this? How am I able to renew my passport while adjusting my status? Can anyone enlighten me please? Thank you so much

Well I didn't see this coming . . .

https://www.uscis.gov/news/news-releases/uscis-updates-process-accepting-petitions-relatives-abroad

Straight from the USCIS website:

Yes. My fianc applied our k1. I129F petition last jan. 7, 2020

But until now we dont have any uodate to my NOA1