US Immigration from Philippines

I will try and be brief. My Philippine Wife was denied a tourist visa 2 years ago, reason: we are both Geodetic Engineers-Manila Embassy. Got Married filed I-130 Spousal 6/2023. My progress, like many, went down to 1 week 3 separate times, then jumped to months, then "your case is taking longer" for 4 months.

At the year mark, one week ago, I was called in for Biometrics, at that time our "my progress" went to 3 months, three days later it went to 19 months. Has anybody else experienced this? I am very close to relocating to the Philippines, since I am blessed to be able to travel to the Philippines often and we now have a beautiful home there, but I really wanted for her to experience America and meet my family, but this disabled Veteran is losing all hope with the US immigration system.

One month in the US, my newlywed wife is homesick and bored

Meetup is useless, Seattle Filipino Community center looks to have only yoga classes, filipino Facebook groups are just selling stuff and posting videos.

Tried to push her to some activities too hard and got a tampo.

How did your filipina survived the first few months in a completely new environment?

PS. They recently opened a Jollibee in Seattle!

Filing the I-130 is pretty straight forward but I was trying to figure out what evidence I needed to add beyond what they are asking for. It asks for our marriage cert, his BC, DC from father but not much else. What other additional evidence do I need to add to show he is my stepson to send the petition in?

The boss had her citizenship interview today. She passed easily. We had to fly back early from the Philippines for it but it was worth it to almost be done with USCIS for good. Already received the update that the oath ceremony will be scheduled. We received notification of the interview while in the Philippines for her father's funeral. We were torn between rescheduling and returning early. In the end we feel we made the right decision as you have no control of the rescheduled interview date.

How long would be enough time to get through Immigration in San Francisco coming from the Philippines? I'm seeing a connecting flight with a 1hr55min layover in San Francisco, then flying to Sacramento.