US Immigration from Nepal

My wife's mother case got DQ from NVC today. we are 3 in the family now she sponsoring her mother total household size will be 4. when I check poverty guidelines for household size of 4 the income needs to be $39000.she alone makes $40800. so that's the reason there is no joint sponsor. but case got DQ and at the same time got this message please assist

The income reported as stated on form I-864, I-864A is insufficient to overcome the public charge grounds of inadmissibility for visa issuance. To avoid delays, an additional Affidavit of Support Form I-864 from a joint sponsor may be submitted. For more information visit https://nvc.state.gov/aos and https://www.uscis.gov/i-864p. A consular officer will decide if you meet these requirements at the time of the interview. Note: You, as the sponsor, and any other sponsors household members and joint sponsors, must provide updated or additional evidence for the applicant to present at the time of their interview such as: * Other income * Assets * Proof of current employment Note: You submitted documentation to the National Visa Center through the Consular Electronic Application Center CEAC. You can continue to upload documents to CEAC up until the date of your visa interview.

Dear Friends,

I filed I-130 for my mother on Oct, 2022 which is still pending. Based on the letter I can see that her medical was improperly filled out, how could I have known when it is sealed. But, what is my next course of action.

Is the issue with medical (I-693) or Affidavit of Support (I-864) or both?
Do you recommend I should refile or file I-290B?

If we were to refile I-485, is there a time limit when it should be done by since it says something about 33 days on page 3?

Thank you,

In the last page this is what it says,

If you believe that the denial of your Form I-485 is in error, you may file a motion to reopen or a motion to reconsider using Form I-290B, Notice of Appeal or Motion. You must submit Form I-290B within 30 days from the date of this notice (33 days if this notice was received by mail).
To access Form I-290B or if you need additional information, please visit the USCIS Web site at www.uscis.gov. For questions about your application, you can use our many online tools (uscis.gov/tools) including our virtual assistant, Emma. If you are not able to find the information you need online, you can reach out to the USCIS Contact Center by visiting uscis.gov/contactcenter.
The motion shall be filed on Form I-290B, together with the current fee and mailed to:
USCIS
Attn: AOS
P.O. Box 805887
Chicago, IL 60680
The evidence of record shows that, when you filed your application, you were present in the United States contrary to law.
You are not authorized to remain in the United States. If you do not intend to file a motion or appeal on this decision and fail to depart the United States within 33 days of the date of this letter, USCIS may issue you a Notice to Appear and commence removal proceedings against you with the immigration court. This may result in your being removed from the United States and found ineligible for a future visa or other U.S. immigration benefit. See sections 237(a) and 212(a)(9)(B) of the INA.
To review information regarding your period of authorized stay, check travel compliance, or find information on how to validate your departure from the United States with Customs and Border Protection (CBP), please see (https://94.cbp.dhs.gov/194/#/home).
Sincerely,

Thank you,

approval expires 2024-09-20. She is Nepalese student in Bangalore, India (for 3 years, the college probably never did FRRO form C)
We have been asking how to change to Kathmandu to process in her native country, since Jul 9-31. They require a letter....not paying $30 to waste 3wks for it to arrive.
Since it was sent by NVC, we're supposed to WAIT (since they're all about shortening processing time, best to not spam them with queries) or them to contact us. We have been asking where is the mail (since Nepal mail sucks [her idea. since she didn't bother to tell her mom to check] and nothing arrived in India where she is,) and what is the next step from Mumbai since Jul-30.
Stupid that they send it to Nepal, she's a student in India (current physical address in petition), BUT THEY SET THE EMBASSY TO MUMBAI, WHEN THEY ASK WHICH EMBASSY YOU WANT!!!!
Ticket response says it was given to a team. Then we have to ASK AGAIN for them to say they mailed it Jul-11, and attached intructions (packet4) in that response. It is Aug-2.
NOW WE KNOW WE HAVE TO GET PCCs from 3 countries.
(She finds how/where to do medical, makes flights home to get documents, i do a 134.)
and the India one will take 20-30 days, their website sucks, we figure out how to get it, it is Aug-17.

**this is Aug-17:
I am having difficulty getting a Police Clearance Certificate (PCC) from India and it looks like it is going to take some time. Moreover, due to my 10 years previous stay in South Korea, I need to get Police Clearance from South Korean Embassy in Kathmandu, Nepal as well.
Since, its going to take a while to get my both PCCs ready, I would like to request you to kindly extend our expiry date of our USCIS approval Notice.
**
their response: "We understand that you have a query regarding the DS-160."

I resubmitted the issue, pasted all this and said "no, we don't"

when information in query is sufficient (I don't usually make them, she did) ~70% of the time, the answer is off topic. this includes THEM NOT RESPONDING to me when I said, "no, you didn't answer our question at all" (<-not exactly) and pasted her post and their reply.

My husband already filed our I-130 and we decided to file it with my married surname (husband's surname). He added my maiden name in "other names used". We knew that I could update my name on passport during the wait period. We also knew CR1 Visa / LPR are issued to the name on the passport at the time of interview, as long as that name was mentioned in form I-130.

However, after applying for an updated passport we discovered that my country laws only allow to ADD husband's surname to the maiden name, but not REPLACE it.
To replace it, apparently we have to go through a much lengthier process of changing citizenship card, re-apply for passport, repay fees, update all other civil documents, etc.

So my new passport has my maiden name as a middle name, and husband's surname. But this three part name (given + maiden + married) was not mentioned in "other names used" in form I-130.

Will this be a problem? We are okay with the maiden name being included in LPR if it will not cause issues, as the alternative is a big hassle.

Would appreciate if anyone could share similar experiences with surname change / addition.