US Immigration from Mexico

I need advice here visa journeys. I know it might sound suspicious to USCIS when somebody gets divorced way before the ROC time comes.

I have known my husband for 20 years and we got married in April 2019, Green card was issued in December 2019.

I noticed dating sites emails coming to his spam since I moved in and I tried to be calmed and just took it as unwanted publicity. I also noticed a woman emailing him since 2016 asking why she was blocked and that she would have wanted them to work out.

Bottom line, I discovered she was his friend since 2014, she visited him in 2016 for 4 days, he blocked her months after that and she kept sending emails that went to the spam folder, but in November 2019 before my green card interview I traveled to my country with my EAD for a few days and medical purposes, when I got back I found out that he had been talking to her and found photos showing him her naked body. I also found an email from him where he tells her that unfortunately he cannot be with her at this moment and that he wouldn't want to cheat on his wife.

I took a long breath and have been checking his emails once in a while. She has emailed him around 7 times since November, she is supposedly still blocked in his phone.

This morning I found 3 emails from her, all of them go to the spam so he was not able to see them, she tells him she got his text that says the following:

Hi sandy, I am sorry I haven t communicated better. I am stuck and unsure of myself. I miss you and want to be with you but the reality is that I am married for better or worse. To continue to entertain the thought of being with you is unfair and unrealistic to us both.

Right after I tried to order on our amazon account and I found out he placed an order for her last week, and 15 minutes later of placing the order he cancelled it maybe thinking I would notice. But he didn't delete the shipping address, so when I wanted to check out from my order the default shipping address is hers.

I definitely cannot keep closing my eyes and thinking that his I love you are truth, I tried to think that it was not cheating because she lives in Florida and we in Arizona, It hurts much and I really married him for good and made a commitment to be with him for ever, but this is too much and it is overwhelming me.

He doesn't know I know and that I have found everything. I don't know if I can keep hiding it and just wait 2 years for ROC, the other part of me wants to tell him, get divorce and keep on going with my life, but I have started a life here in the U.S. and don't want to loose my green card. Nobody deserves this when we have been so loyal, faithful and supportive as a wife should be.

Ok so our priority date is September 14th 2019, we ve been waiting for an interview at Ciudad Juarez since then. Is there anything I should be doing so I don t miss anything from now until we receive an interview date? I m assuming the list is long for those waiting an interview.

In the letter it mentions about checking the visa bulletin for updates but I honestly think understand it.
Can anyone help clear my mind??
Thank you in advance.

-Janett

Guys so 3 years ago,my fiances visa was not approved so they told him try again in 3 more years,its been three more years,the case status says is open and was not destroyed, so a lawyer give me the number where i can call and sent a request for a second interview approval,it's been 3 weeks ,i have submitted 2 different requests already,they only last 10 days and you got to resubmit another one,until you get an answer,did anyone ever had something similar..? Please if you don't want to help. Don't reply...

Hi several months ago I asked questions regarding a visitor Visa for my Mexican wife. who at the time was my fiance. We applied and she has been granted a visa after we married in Canada! Yea! Now we are going forward to work on a visitor Visa for her son. My question is do we need to wait for her Visa and the number to apply for her sons Visa? What is the process to apply for his Visa?

Thanks!

Doug

I'm certain enough if my wife's requirements to transmit her IR1 but I'm not 100% on what my step daughter will need. Our Mexican marriage certificate is translated and apostilled, wife and daughters birth certificates also translated and apostilled. INM, the Mexican immigration agency, requires a Salida de Menores (SAM) for minors to leave but their requirement is only if none of the biological parents are file. Additionally we live right at a land border and Mexican INM never checks anyone leaving Mexico, least not in the 8 years I've lived here.

I haven't seen any clear indication on US Dept of State websites stating the SAM nor even a signed, notarized consent is required to add my stepdaughter to the applications but I'd like to ask here if anyone knows