Hello!
I've asked this question in a German fb group already and got told to ask my question here.
My Husband was a service active duty member for 10 years, got medical seperated like 2 Months ago.
We are together for 3 years and married for 1.
he has struggled with alcohol and mental issues the past 2 years. we went to Familie advocacy, had marriage counseling, I had to call the German and base police 3 times. he got no contact orders and now a provisional order though the german court.
he started to take pills and acted normal for the last couple months so I "kinda "paused the provisional order.
In this time he filed the I-130 for me and my 2 older Children because he was normal, seperated and I was then ready to move with him. he filed like 2 months ago and I've got a email that the Embassy in Frankfurt Grermay has started the process. my husband started to take his pills only infrequently, which we all have felt.
I had to go back to the police and now hes not allowed to come back home again.
I dont want to cancle the application. he doesnt want to eather. maybe one day he will go on a treatment.
But I don't know how to handle the GC situation now. Some people tell me to file for Vawa, some say I should not change anything. what would be the best solution?
we have one child together
we have a house
finances together
i also have proofs for black mail, emotional abuse with screenshots, security forces documents, german police and the provisional order.
What should I do? get a lawyer?