Hello all, the last 24 hours have really left my head spinning and my blood pressure at an all time high learning all of this information about immigration to the US. I'll try not to drag this post out for too long, and not ramble too much.
I myself am a US Citizen (21M) and I'm posting on behalf of my French fianc e (20F) to hopefully find some answers.
I have been living in France with her for three months under a Schengen visa, and in two weeks we will both be going to Quebec, Canada for at least 4 months and possibly up to 6, for her final internship to obtain her professional license. After that is currently unknown, and the reason why I am here.
I was under the very misinformed impression just getting married would be enough to keep her in the USA, but I've now learned it's nothing close to that and that we have a very complicated and annoying road of paperwork ahead of us.
After talking to some people on reddit, three possibilities were proposed to me, and none of them seem great so I'm here to ask for some help.
We plan to get legally married the first week of March, then she will leave the country and remain in Canada throughout her internship, and this is when we would like to begin working on the proper visa. After some reading about the CR-1 visa, it seems near impossible due to the financial affidavit. I simply don't make enough money at the moment to meet the 200% annual income over the poverty line. At the time of writing, I don't even have a job in the States, I am actively looking for one near the border. My family's financial situation isn't very good either, and her family wants us to be able to do this without help.
Someone mentioned something called the VIE program where she comes in under a J Visa and works for a certain amount of time, anywhere from 6 to 24 months, and we can apply for an AOS during that period, but I'm still very confused on the whole process and how long all of this takes.
We would like to avoid being separated at all possible costs, seeing as both of our living situations at the moment greatly depend on each other, mine even more so than hers. We would prefer to live in the US for the next few years, and it doesn't seem that France is any easier for us to get married and immigrate to so I'm not sure if that's an option either.
I would appreciate any advice from you all on what we should do.