Hello everyone,
I would really appreciate some advice on a complicated matter. However, I don t need any judgment on my situation and decision, just advice from whoever thinks they can help with their experience. Let me explain myself :
I came here on a K1 visa last October. I applied for AOS on December 23rd, 2019. My EAD/AP was approved a couple days ago (May 27th), and I should receive my combo card anytime now.
I have been struggling a lot mentally for a few months now, even before the whole COVID-19 thing. Our big wedding was supposed to be celebrated with my family coming from France on April 5th, but was cancelled. My grandmother passed away 2 weeks ago, and I wasn t able to go back to my country for the funeral. And in general, I have been struggling here as a foreigner, with big relationship issues with my mother in law and feeling very very homesick.
I am very close to my family and leaving them to come here was a huge sacrifice for me, but I did it for love. I now have severe anxiety and panic attacks and have had to see a therapist.
Thanks to this therapist, we got a letter explaining our situation and my husband is going to get special/emergency unpaid time off so that him and I can go visit my family for 6 weeks, from July 31st to September 12th. We already booked plane tickets a while ago, knowing that we could cancel if I didn t get my AP in time. Those 6 weeks are not just important to me, I need this time with my family for my mental health, and that will always come first.
With the field offices reopening soon, I could get an interview notice anytime (although my status for I-485 was never scheduled for an interview, just ready to be scheduled since February 27th).
So, with that, here are my questions :
- Should we move our trip to earlier in July (instead of July 31st) and come back August 22nd ; or should we keep our dates to July 31st to September 12th ? With the backlog, I know the people who had their interview canceled because of the coronavirus will come first, but there s also a chance my turn could come fast too, I guess ?... Is it better to go earlier for that reason ?
- If we do receive an interview notice with an interview date while we are away (we will have someone getting our mail twice a week), can we reschedule from my country via phone and explain our situation ? Will our letter from the therapist help ?
Again, I am not interested in judgment in regards to my decision to go back home with an AP and for such a long time. I am very well aware that it is not recommended at all to reschedule an AOS interview, and that there is no guarantee that I will be let back in the US. But my mental health comes first and I am willing to take the risk. I am just trying to make the best decision with this situation and minimize this risk, if I can, with any advice I can get.
Thank you for reading me and thank you in advance for your help and advice.