Hello, its my first time posting here so sorry if it is in the wrong section.
Myself and my partner filed for the k1 in Dec 2020 after he left the country after leaving the Air Force. We had known eachother over 3 years and had lived together one of those. We spent 8 montbs apart and he has been here with me the last 5 months because we couldn't be away from eachother but he has to leave next week.
I went for my medical in London on thursday, it was the most nervous I think i have ever been! Anyway I was open and honest about my mental health (had a very detailed summary care record) and have had low mood and depression on and off and was diagnosed at 16 as having borderline personality disorder, i took a non serious overdose and was asked to be hospitalised i was for 2-3 weeks. Again in 2017 i had post natal depression and asked to be volinterily admitted for a few days before discharging myself. I admitted to the doctor I had tried cannabis once in 2017 when it was offered to me by a neighbour when I couldnt sleep and did a drug test (just incase they wanted my mental health history and it was on there). I have been on no medication, and under no mental health team since early 2018 and my mental heath is the best it has ever been, i am very happy and am positive about the future.
I was told my police record came back with a live trace which I guessed was a caution from when I was 15-16 when i had a small fight with a girl at school and she called the police and i apologised and it was all dropped, i now have to wait a month for a subject acsess report for the interview.
I am now waiting the 5 days to see if the medical needs further info or if i get signed off. I am so worried i am going to get denied. I want to be with my partner more than anything in the world. Has anyone had any experience similar or does anyone have any advise. I will probably be waiting 1 month or more before i can even book my interview.