Hi everyone, I really need your help about my special situation.
I and my husband got married this year without letting our both side parents known after 1 year dating. We just shared it with a few very closed friends. Besides our few closed friends, no one really knows we got married. The main reason is that our both side parents are very conservative. I and my husband are both 30 years old, and we truly love each other and the marriage decision is very serious after deeply discussing our future. The problem is that we do not have big proposal and official wedding. We are planning to do it after I moved to the US and then we tell everyone.
Our both side parents knows our relationship, and they just did not expect we should marry so "fast". My husband video calls my parents sometime, and I video call his family too.
For the evidence we are going to use: flight tickets that my husband visited me (He took 10 hours flights to visit me at least 1 time every month since the last year), chatting record, (also chatting record with parents), wedding rings receipts, gift exchange receipts, joint bank account, the receipts that he transferred money to me frequently, photos of I and my husband, the two pets we both had in my husband's house.
We do not have evidence of photos of big family gathering or big wedding, no friends group pictures. I know it may sounds weird to you guys, but our marriage was adult decision and I do not know how much is the importance of parents support or evidence in USCIS or the local consular office.
Questions one: Is our situation/marriage going to be suspicious to the immigration officer in any of the CR 1 process? I am now waiting for the I-130 to be approved. Would they request more evidence to be submitted before approval ? How will I answer if the officer asking me questions such as "why you do not have pictures with his family?" "Have you met his parents?" "why no big wedding?" during the interview? Could I just tell the truth that our parents are very conservative, and they prefer longer dating before marry?
Questions two: My husband has a decent job as a doctor and his income ( $100 K per year) has far away met the income requirement of USCIS . His job is a permanent and stable position, but he just started his job for one year. He has his tax return for one year. I do not know if we need a joint sponsor. If we do need a joint sponsor, then we are not able to ask from his parents. Do you guys think our situation need a joint sponsor? Where we could go if we need a joint sponsor except parents?
I am very anxious about my situation while waiting and I truly pray everyone good luck for application.