I wasn't sure where to post this topic, this is the closest I could get.
So a little backstory, I'm a lawful Canadian Permanent Resident residing in Canada and have been since 2009.
I still hold my UK citizenship and British passport, I never applied for Canadian Citizenship due to my Father being on an offshore rotation for work, so he doesn't have enough days present in Canada during the 5 year period the count for to qualify. My mum, my Dad and I moved as a family and wanting to wait to get it as a family.
In 2017 I met my now fianc , he's a US citizen. It took me a while before I started travelling over there, but we both live just outside Niagara Falls (him on the NY side, myself on the ON side).
So for the past 2 years, we'd take turns spending the weekend at each others houses. Since I'm still a British citizen although I live in Canada, I had to refill out the form for the I-94 every 3 months (not an official visa as the UK is part of the VWP). It was suggested by a kind CBP officer that I just get an ESTA so I didn't need to fill out the forms every 3 months. So I did.
The ESTA is still valid and will be until December of this year.
We filed for the K1 last year, we're currently at our NOA2 stage, it had just reached the consulate and we'd gotten our first ready before everything shut down for COVID-19.
My problem lies in the fact that over Valentines Day in February of this year, I did was I would normally do, I walked over the Rainbow Bridge and handed over my passport with my valid I-94 (still had a month left on it) and the CBP officer told me to sit down (which was unusual they usually just ask where I'm going, when I'm leaving and stamp my passport). He called me over some 15 minutes later after calling over a colleague and told me that I should be going home to my own country after I visit (even though I live in Canada as a permanent resident). He then told me he was going to put a note on my file and said if I tried to enter the US again he would stop my K1 from being processed. I wasn't then turned away at the border, he let me through.
I spoke to my immigration lawyer and also my fianc 's coworker spoke to her husband who works for CBP, they both said they had never heard fo this happening and told me not to worry.
Fast forward to now, with the land borders being shut down I haven't seen my fianc since March. He had started visiting me every weekend after this debacle happened at the border.
I want to fly from Toronto to Buffalo as travel is still allowed by air if you have an ESTA. I'm worried about this note on my file, even though everyone told me its BS.
I'm not sure how to go about filing a FOIA for that specific information, I've tried calling CBP twice but have been on hold for 2 hours so I gave up.
Has this ever happened to anyone else before? I hadn't overstayed, my I-94 was still valid, I was only coming in for the weekend and my ESTA was also valid.
I'm not sure why he had a problem with me but I could tell from the beginning of our interaction that it wasn't going to go well.