So me and my Canadian husband sent in a AoS package back in October 2019, we've had no issues so far other than having to send in a long form birth certificate. Our original interview was back in April but was cancelled because of COVID-19. He has done his biometrics and gotten his EAD and work SSN.
I can't help be so anxious about the interview. We've been married for 4 years. He was out of status (overstay) for 3 years pretty much as we had some emergencies pop up that required money which made it hard to file while providing for both of us. He's obviously been unemployed and we stay with my parents (I pay them rent). He came on a tourist visa in February 2016 to help me care for my Mom who had open heart surgery, we were gonna drive back and stay in Canada after a few months when she was recovered but I ended up getting promoted to full time at my current employer and decided I wasn't sure if leaving that job and my Mom was such a good idea and I guess since our plans were changing and we were gonna be separated he ended up proposing end of July 2016 and we were married in September at the courthouse where my Mom and a family friend was present.
The evidence I have is joint bank account for last 2 years, 3 years of joint tax returns, I added him on my main credit card as an authorized user (although there is no paper showing this that I can find but he has the card in his wallet). We have a joint phone plan for over a year and he is the beneficiary on my work life insurance. I've met his family (I don't have pictures though as this was 5 years ago) and he has met mine (which I have holiday pictures every year of him, me and my extended family). I also have evidence of one vacation together (all we have taken) with pictures and also pictures of us at a concert. I have evidence that we visited 4 times before this last visit. And lastly I have a ton of greeting cards (most still have the envelope with postage and our address and names) I kept from his mom and grandma to me and him over the last few years, some with a lot of writing since his grandma loves to write to him.
What I don't have is a joint lease or utility bills as everything is in my Mom's name ( but I do have an affidavit from her, and also his Mom too). We bought a car together (this was the event that most caused us to have to postpone our application as my car was a money pit and then finally died making us use any savings we had trying to keep it alive and then on down payment on a new car ) and I have pictures of us on that day with our but I wasn't able to add his name to it.
Unfortunately outside of holidays with my family we don't have many pictures. We are homebodies and game in our free time and I don't know how to provide evidence of that.
The things I'm most worried about is we met online in the game WoW and I am 13 years older than him. It's never been an issue for us but I know age gaps are frowned upon. Also his overstay and proposing on a tourist visa even though none of this was our intent, it's just what ended up happening.
Sorry for such a long post I'm just extremely anxious about the interview. My husband tells me to calm down and it'll be fine but I just want it to be over so he can work and we can start a family.
Is there any other evidence we can provide that I haven't thought of or do you think I have enough? And would any of my concerns cause any serious issues at the interview?
I can screenshot texts from the last 2 years on my phone to and from my husband, between my husband and my mom, or between me and his mom if needed.