Our K1 was denied at the interview on July 29, she was verbally told that the officer was "worried for her safety" but the letter given to her said "not a genuine relationship". We married Aug 24, and are preparing to apply for the I-130. We want to be sure that we have enough proof to overcome the previous denial.
I plan to provide everything I previously provided (226 photos, land purchased together in 2018 with a 5 year loan, 17 Cambodian visas in my name, 16 hotel bookings in other countries with photos of the trip (part of the 226 photos)).
Below are the additional things I've thought of that we could provide:
A) Affidavits from 2 American citizen expats that know us very well, and one from my mom
B) Visa stamps side by side showing we did travel together as much as I said (I previously provided hotel bookings, and photos, but adding stamps to really prove it)
C) Passports for my mom/kids to show that yes, these are really photos of my kids here in Cambodia with her and not someone local I'm "pretending" is my family.
D) Western Union payments I send to her at least once a month since December 2016
E) Proof that she can speak at least some English (3rd grade English)
F) Proof of her daughter doing school online in USA that I've been paying for (IXL, on 5th grade English)
G) Proof that we didn't marry before because I thought I couldn't (I found while gathering my arrests when doing the K1, as I also did an FBI Background Check and it was clean)
H) Our chats on Messenger, not sure how far back that goes.
I) Her chats on Messenger with my family in USA
J) Photos from our engagement party (because of COVID they only allowed us to have 20 guests, but we have photos doing the local customs for engagement and marriage).
K) Photos from the elopement party we'll do, showing us with hopefully ALOT of people via Zoom. I'd need to wait until after September 9 for this.
L) A letter/affidavit from her family
M) A letter/affidavit from the people we rented apartments from
N) A letter/affidavit from the local commune acknowledging the relationship
O) Showing her name on my stuff like utility bills, just that is being a pain now because of social security number issue. Plus will take more time waiting for the physical copies. Plus in my mind it looks fake doing that as she isn't there yet. None of my banks or credit cards allow her without SSN, so if I should do a bank I'll need to open a new account with CitiBank.
P) Showing how I didn't get the money back from our planned wedding in USA (I had already spent $2100 and only got $300 back, so I didn't get stuff I could turn around and refund).
Q) Showing how hard it was to come here to be with her ($3000 deposit, missed flight because of no rapid tests costing $350, $275 for COVID test in USA, $200 for COVID tests in Cambodia, being away from my kids, 3 days in quarantine plus $200+ in fees from it, plus I got the flight as soon as they re-opened flights to Cambodia)
R) A copy showing we did the online ePREP pre-marital program (recommended by Utah)
Please let me know which ones for sure I should include, and which ones aren't needed or possibly bad (like not sure if WU receipts will help or hurt). We are only 3 years apart, and look evenly matched, so I doubt they think she is a gold digger or that I'm a sugar daddy.
Also, let me know if there is something I'm not thinking of.
One last question, I really do need to go back to the states at least for a couple months. I'm just really worried that me leaving her right after marrying will look really bad and make the relationship look less genuine. I'm also very worried that I'll get stuck in USA like I did on my last trip.
Also, a bit depressed, as their communication makes it seem like there is nothing I can provide to prove our relationship. Honestly, if COVID let's up might be best we just move to another country then apply from there.