I was living happily with family in Mexico City until work ran out. Coming back to the states for a job we thought since already legally married in Mexico we could apply for a tourist visa and I would return once more work was secured. Turns out we were way off - so now I am back in the states and trying to secure visas for my family to come be with me - while keeping a home going in Mexico as well and visiting when I can. I am sure this is a pretty common storyline over all.