The evidence that I have, I already sent in with my I-751 filing. The only other evidence that I can show is from sending her gift’s, money for bill’s, and food delivery. We have a car in both our name’s, and the two affidavits from her kid’s, we no longer have a joint account, nor authorized user’s on each other’s accounts. I want to add her to my pension, but I do not have her social security card anymore, and she say’s that pension’s are for loved one’s, so I have no way of adding her to it. I don’t know what else to do other than talk to Hacking as suggested.