Toby and I met when he was working in England back in 2005, we both knew he would leave eventually so our relationship was casual - but as time passed we grew closer. Even after he went back to the US we remained in regular contact, by email or phone until he returned to the UK in April 2007. We spent almost every weekend together and gradually realised we were in love. When he flew back the US in October 2007, we had decided to fly back and forth to keep our relationship going, but when I flew to the US at Xmas, he introduced me to his family, and then proposed. We're now going through the K1 visa process and are counting the days until we can be together. In the meantime i'm taking my chances with POE officers and going to visit him again on February 29th......