I met Mary, (her Muslim name, her Chinese name is Caiyun Ma), online on June 22, 2007. I feel in love with this beautiful lady by reading her words to me. I traveled to Urumqi, China in August of 2007. Once I met Mary, I knew that this was the woman God had intended for me to spend the rest of my life with. I returned to China and Mary and I were married on February 2, 2008. We had a wonderful ceremony on February 4th, with her family friends in attendance. She has a wonderful 13 year old daughter. Sophia, who I love as my own. Having Mary and Sophia with me, here in America is my only goal now. VJ has been so very helpful.