Adrii

Thank you for your suggestions. Could you give me an example of a third party person who could write a letter? While my husband was not working there was no health insurance / life insurance. He started a new job in late 2021, and in early 2022 I relocated to be with him and that's when I was added to his health insurance and we tried to work on the relationship. I can provide proof of this / us being / living together during that time. - this is all documentation that USCIS does not have as it occured post filing the I-175. Ultimately it didn't work out and now present day we are no longer together. Which is why you may feel like I type about him like he is a friend because at this point in life we are friends and are no longer romantically involved. Again thanks for sharing your insight.

I left South Carolina in April 2022, so yes it has been almost two years. To clarify I do not have receipts on hotel stays in SC as I wasn't staying at a hotel I was living with my husband as his home. I have evidnece to support of our time together in SC.

While I appreciate your perspective, I think you are misunderstanding the timeline here. So I will clarify. We lived together for almost 2 years. He was discharged from the military and moved home with family and was receiving unemployment afterwards for 12 months before relocating for a new job (to south carolina) I then relocated to South Carolina, we tried to work on our marriage. We both worked in SC. There was no payment exchanged for any deed and there is no evidence to support that because it didn't happen.

I don't have any hotel reservations as I was staying with him and I didn't think to keep any paper receipts of things we did (this was now over 2 years ago) I'm going to search the SC address in my emails to see if that can provide any electronic receipts etc. This is incredibly overwhelming and I truly would've filed for divorce earlier if I thought I had been doing anything that seemed suspious in the eyes of USCIS.

I don't have communications from 2 years ago as all my texts auto delete after a certain period of time to save on storage. We did do several trips to celebrate birthdays holidays etc and I have photos from these times. I did also move to SC to try and make it work (and while I wasn't on the lease agreement) I did work while I was there and have paystubs with his address on them to support this. Do you have any other suggestions for evidence?

Thank you, I was honest about living apart when I filed because I wanted to tell the truth and I didn't have anything to hide and at the time really felt as though we were going to be able to save our marriage. My husband being discharged from the military really took a toll on his mental health and I did think some time at home with his family would remotivate him to find a new career path. I will definately consult with an attorney for additional insight. Do you think since they are questioning the legitimacy of our marriage in general I should provide additional evidence leading up to the separation? - more photos, affidavits from family and friends etc? - I also realized I never included our health insurance policies and life insurance etc

Although we had been living apart we were still travelling back and fourth and seeing each and at the time we weren't certain what the future held. I have until June 14 to respond, I'm not sure how long an uncontested divorce takes to file in VA but lets say I don't have it by June 14, what evidence would you suggest I provide at that point?

Thank you I appreciate your help! With the amendment would you suggest we provide updated signed statements? Yes the form was signed by us both and he always signed a statement outlining the current situation of us living apart (in 2021)

Thanks for your input! To put it blunty, yes the marriage is now dead. But when I filed 921 days ago it was not. Will I have to withdraw the current case? Or can I reply to the RFE with a divorce decree or is this filing an amendment in response to the RFE?

Thanks for your input. Do you know if I can withdraw this application, file for divorce and then re apply with the divorce waiver? At the time I filed (over 900 days ago) we were still working on the marriage (this has since changed)

Looking for some advice / hoping to find people that have been in a similar situation & my apologies this is a long one. Backstory: I immigrated from Australia on a K1 Visa at the end of 2018. Married in 2018, recieved my Greencard in 2019. In August of 2020, my husband and I decided to take some time apart. Incase people want the nitty gritty details / incase it matters - he was getting out of the Military and was wanting to go home to Green Bay, WI to spend some time with his family while he planned his next career move. At the time we were living together in Arlington, VA (this was where he was stationed) I had built a great support network of friends and had a stable job with great income and it didn't make sense for me to quit my job and move to Green Bay and have no combined income. So in summary he went to Green Bay, WI & I stayed in VA working and I signed a lease on an aparment on my own and he was staying with his family in Green Bay, (no lease) and he was not working. In September 2021 it was time for me to file for the removal of conditions. At this time I was still living solo in Arlington and working and he was still at home in Green Bay staying with family and not working. In this packet I included: - a personal statement signed by both myself and my husband outlining our current situation - (the fact that he was now living in Green Bay and I was in Arlington and that although we were living apart we were still in regular contact and had planned to reunite once he decided on his next career path, ((at the time he was considering joining a different branch of the military)) - Jointly filed tax returns for 2019 & 2020 - Our original lease agreement from Arlington from 2018 - 2020 - Joint Car insurance - Joint cell phone bill - A travel itinerary for my spouse to visit me in Arlington - Vet records for our two dogs showing joint ownership - 2 affidavits from friends - Photographs Fast forward to present day. March 18 2024 - I got an RFE asking for additional evidence to show my spouse and I entered into our marriage in good faith and continue to share a life together. Now here is where I need the adivce. While my husband and I entered into this marriage in good faith with all intentions of this being forever we are no longer together. We are however still legally married. We are on good terms but are completely individually self sufficient. Is USCIS wanting an update on where this situatuon is at? I guess I'm confused on what documentation to provide as all of the suggested documentation on the RFE is to support - as quoted on the notice "establish shared family planning, share responsibility for a common residence, hold ourselves to the public as a married couple or continue to share a life together" And again while we are still very much in each others lives it's in a different capacity and there are no suggestions of what evidence to provide if you are no longer together. There are a couple of suggested documents that I could provide but I'm not trying to prove we are still in a comitted marriage but I can prove we are still legally married (there has been no divorce filed) and we are on good terms. We still speak almost daily, have joint health insurance, life insurance, we've visited each other over the years, have photos - but again we're not romantically together anymore. Has anyone been in this situation? If so what should I send in? My husband now resides in Charleston, SC and has a new career I still reside in VA and have a successful business. In case it matters we do not have shared financials and do file our taxes together however married filing separately. Any advice or input is grealty appreciated