We met through a mutual friend in the states, she told me he would be perfect for me, I didn't like him in the beggining, but after 1 year of playing hard to get I finally went on that date and fell for him that was in 2010, now 2015 with a 3 and a half year old we are finally going to take that step, our relationship is easy and different than most of the people here, I live in Tijuana Mexico and he lives in San Ysidro United States, which is like 10 minutes away if you take the border away, but with crossing the border is like 2 hours away, which is still pretty close, I had a tourist Visa so I was able to cross every weekend to be with him, I got pregnant, and shortly after that my Visa was cancelled, since I couldn't prove I was working in Mexico, so I havent been able to cross to the U.S. since 2012. We have a little boy that's 3 and half, on February 23rd 2015 will be our 5 year anniversary. Even though we are truly in love and can't wait to be together forever, we are nervous about this whole process, so I joined this site in hopes to get support and information that we need, as well as help the people I can, to go through this long journey