Qasim and I met and fell in love over the course of 3 months in Fall 2012. I was in Dehradun doing research for my PhD. Since then we have been in near constant email/phone/skype contact and I have visited once with plans to visit again. I am currently awaiting my NOA2. Although we are madly in love we have quite a few "red flags": i am agnostic/Christian and he is Muslim; he is 8 years younger than me; there is a pretty big difference in our education level (he has no college education); and my family doesn't really approve (his does). We are hoping for the best but are both scared based on what we've read about the Delhi Consulate and our "red flags".