Inconsiderate update!!

[Ruemonst 0]

To explain what I feel is inconsiderate.

Leaving in the morning without a goodbye.

Going to sleep without a goodnight.

Driving around St. Petersburg without knowing where

we are going.

And she drives like a nut too!

Everything possible to make you feel unwanted.

The lady watching her son is from the north

of Russia. Where my friend is from. Her best childhood friends mother.

They are constantly talking. I ask where are we going?

Answer.. To an interview, I have to meet someone. ?????????

Today we went to a shopping mall.

She says lets go this way... Then she disappears!!

The lady... Galina. Is frantic, I am pissed. I found her an

hour later shopping in a store. I asked why she left us?

She offers to give me one of her cell phones to give to Galina.

Galina is a very nice lady.. We comunicate through a dictionary.

She is constantly apologizing to me about my friend. She says

that I am a good man))

Her son is great also.. I am his best friend))

But, she is a complete different person than before.

I said today to her. " You seem different than before "

She says... " I am different, I don't know why. Maybe you to "

She says that I probably need a fat ugly wife that will sit home and

worry about when I will be home.

All I want out of anyone in my life is to be considerate!!

What is wrong with saying.... I am going to shop. I'll meet you wherever

in an hour???

I told her to find a flat and I would send money to pay.

Guess what!! I did!!

I guess I am asking to much from this one((

We have known each other for 7 months. We talked regularly on the

phone and emailed at least 3 times per week.

I had a great time in July with her and her son.

She was a relaxed and caring person. Now she runs around like

a chicken with it's head cut off and doesn't seem to care about others.

I am sorry if this doesn't make sense. If I was in a country where I

could read)))). I would have a good time anyway. Since I paid for the flat

I will continue to stay here...and suffer))

After my relationships with American woman. I thought alone was the

way for me.

By accident I saw and wrote to this girl ( she did not have the most beautiful picture )

She just seemed like a nice woman. When I saw her for the first time I was amazed

at how beautiful she was.

Now she wants to marry a rich Russian man and she will reimburse me))).

Any advice on where or how to meet a nice considerate woman??

Again I am sorry about the rambling letter.

Ed

[jamrok 0]

To explain what I feel is inconsiderate.

Leaving in the morning without a goodbye.

Going to sleep without a goodnight.

Driving around St. Petersburg without knowing where

we are going.

And she drives like a nut too!

Everything possible to make you feel unwanted.

The lady watching her son is from the north

of Russia. Where my friend is from. Her best childhood friends mother.

They are constantly talking. I ask where are we going?

Answer.. To an interview, I have to meet someone. ?????????

Today we went to a shopping mall.

She says lets go this way... Then she disappears!!

The lady... Galina. Is frantic, I am pissed. I found her an

hour later shopping in a store. I asked why she left us?

She offers to give me one of her cell phones to give to Galina.

Galina is a very nice lady.. We comunicate through a dictionary.

She is constantly apologizing to me about my friend. She says

that I am a good man))

Her son is great also.. I am his best friend))

But, she is a complete different person than before.

I said today to her. " You seem different than before "

She says... " I am different, I don't know why. Maybe you to "

She says that I probably need a fat ugly wife that will sit home and

worry about when I will be home.

All I want out of anyone in my life is to be considerate!!

What is wrong with saying.... I am going to shop. I'll meet you wherever

in an hour???

I told her to find a flat and I would send money to pay.

Guess what!! I did!!

I guess I am asking to much from this one((

We have known each other for 7 months. We talked regularly on the

phone and emailed at least 3 times per week.

I had a great time in July with her and her son.

She was a relaxed and caring person. Now she runs around like

a chicken with it's head cut off and doesn't seem to care about others.

I am sorry if this doesn't make sense. If I was in a country where I

could read)))). I would have a good time anyway. Since I paid for the flat

I will continue to stay here...and suffer))

After my relationships with American woman. I thought alone was the

way for me.

By accident I saw and wrote to this girl ( she did not have the most beautiful picture )

She just seemed like a nice woman. When I saw her for the first time I was amazed

at how beautiful she was.

Now she wants to marry a rich Russian man and she will reimburse me))).

Any advice on where or how to meet a nice considerate woman??

Again I am sorry about the rambling letter.

Ed

What other signs are you looking for???? Walk away now...cut your losses. You have no chance. Wish you good luck in finding a good woman who shares the same values as u do

[Ta Ta 1]

Good grief.......ruuuuun !!!!!! In the opposite direction !!!!!! I would not

want to be around her for another day ..............

[Ron-n-Natasha 0]

After your explanation, I can say it seems to me, really you are not asking too much from your realtionship.. Everyone deserves to be treated with at least a minimum baseline of respect, and and frankly it doesnt appear that you are being given that. Also, how are you expected to develop a close, honest & open relationship with one another if you cant even relate to her anymore?

I sadly agree with the others here, I would try and make as good of an experience out of this as possible and learn from it, but get out of there and find one you are more compatible with. Good luck to you, in whatever you decide.

[mrsushi66 0]

Now that you have clarified, I would agree that you should mark this up to a life lesson. An expensive one but a life lesson none the less. I am sorry this did not work out and she has become a different person.

On the bright side, imagine what it would have been like if she had changed after you were married and had kids.

Paul misses Anna

[slim 1,514]

Dude, go shopping!!!

That's your apartment, don't be scared to bring new people (as in HOT LADIES) over for a "nightcap."

If the girl you're there with right now is not jumping through hoops to impress you, something is terribly wrong. Don't waste your time in Russia trying to salvage something that obviously isn't going to make you happy in the end.

FIND A NEW ONE!!!!!

[edsperfect 25]

To explain what I feel is inconsiderate.

Leaving in the morning without a goodbye.

Going to sleep without a goodnight.

Driving around St. Petersburg without knowing where

we are going.

And she drives like a nut too!

Everything possible to make you feel unwanted.

The lady watching her son is from the north

of Russia. Where my friend is from. Her best childhood friends mother.

They are constantly talking. I ask where are we going?

Answer.. To an interview, I have to meet someone. ?????????

Today we went to a shopping mall.

She says lets go this way... Then she disappears!!

The lady... Galina. Is frantic, I am pissed. I found her an

hour later shopping in a store. I asked why she left us?

She offers to give me one of her cell phones to give to Galina.

Galina is a very nice lady.. We comunicate through a dictionary.

She is constantly apologizing to me about my friend. She says

that I am a good man))

Her son is great also.. I am his best friend))

But, she is a complete different person than before.

I said today to her. " You seem different than before "

She says... " I am different, I don't know why. Maybe you to "

She says that I probably need a fat ugly wife that will sit home and

worry about when I will be home.

All I want out of anyone in my life is to be considerate!!

What is wrong with saying.... I am going to shop. I'll meet you wherever

in an hour???

I told her to find a flat and I would send money to pay.

Guess what!! I did!!

I guess I am asking to much from this one((

We have known each other for 7 months. We talked regularly on the

phone and emailed at least 3 times per week.

I had a great time in July with her and her son.

She was a relaxed and caring person. Now she runs around like

a chicken with it's head cut off and doesn't seem to care about others.

I am sorry if this doesn't make sense. If I was in a country where I

could read)))). I would have a good time anyway. Since I paid for the flat

I will continue to stay here...and suffer))

After my relationships with American woman. I thought alone was the

way for me.

By accident I saw and wrote to this girl ( she did not have the most beautiful picture )

She just seemed like a nice woman. When I saw her for the first time I was amazed

at how beautiful she was.

Now she wants to marry a rich Russian man and she will reimburse me))).

Any advice on where or how to meet a nice considerate woman??

Again I am sorry about the rambling letter.

Ed

I think you have a serious problem with that relatrionship. I would quit, NOW

[travlnmannn 0]

I'm with Slim. Go out while you are there in Russia and find someone. There are tons of women in St. Petersburg that will talk to you. Dont think for a minute there isn't a woman there looking for you.

[skinsfan 0]

it is your flat...there are women everywhere...just go out and get you one, or two, or as many as you like...seriously, there are many women...simply look, and don't be afraid to speak to them...as for the girl now...tell her your time together has finished and she must leave now !!!!

[slim 1,514]

it is your flat...there are women everywhere...just go out and get you one, or two, or as many as you like...seriously, there are many women...simply look, and don't be afraid to speak to them...as for the girl now...tell her your time together has finished and she must leave now !!!!

Yes, I forgot that part in my previous post... kick her out of the flat! But, I have a feeling that if you're bringing ladies over, she'll get the point. (She probably won't leave... free rent is nice) but she'll get the idea that you're not going to support her after you find a "good one." And, any decent Russian girl that likes you and that you like, will have no problem telling this other girl that her freeloading days of not being considerate are over.

[Satellite 1]

Yes, I forgot that part in my previous post... kick her out of the flat!

I'd be careful about what kicking anybody out. The Russian lady could simply bring a false claim of sexual assualt against this poor guy and the miltia will have him locked up for days before they let him out. Who are they going to believe? And you don't even want to know what kind of treatment he'll get in a Russian jail cell.

[John and Anna 0]

I'm with Slim. Go out while you are there in Russia and find someone. There are tons of women in St. Petersburg that will talk to you. Dont think for a minute there isn't a woman there looking for you.

Tons Of women in St Pete

here is a phone number

Olga - nice girl 28. Great to hang out with!

see picture on www.annaalexandrova.com black haired girl green eyes

+79112238828

Yes, I forgot that part in my previous post... kick her out of the flat!

I'd be careful about what kicking anybody out. The Russian lady could simply bring a false claim of sexual assualt against this poor guy and the miltia will have him locked up for days before they let him out. Who are they going to believe? And you don't even want to know what kind of treatment he'll get in a Russian jail cell.

Need a body Guard

Denis Sanshayn

+7 (911) 913 0681

Edited October 19, 2006 by John and Anna

[slim 1,514]

I'm with Slim. Go out while you are there in Russia and find someone. There are tons of women in St. Petersburg that will talk to you. Dont think for a minute there isn't a woman there looking for you.

Tons Of women in St Pete

here is a phone number

Olga - nice girl 28. Great to hang out with!

see picture on www.annaalexandrova.com black haired girl green eyes

+79112238828

Need a body Guard

Denis Sanshayn

+7 (911) 913 0681

Forget GTR... I'm going with John's Travel to Russia for my next trip. Girls, body guards... that's a great start, I like where you're going with this! Very 007.

Edited October 20, 2006 by slim

[IrinaNMike 0]

I'm with Slim. Go out while you are there in Russia and find someone. There are tons of women in St. Petersburg that will talk to you. Dont think for a minute there isn't a woman there looking for you.

Tons Of women in St Pete

here is a phone number

Olga - nice girl 28. Great to hang out with!

see picture on www.annaalexandrova.com black haired girl green eyes

+79112238828

Need a body Guard

Denis Sanshayn

+7 (911) 913 0681

Forget GTR... I'm going with John's Travel to Russia for my next trip. Girls, body guards... that's a great start, I like where you're going with this! Very 007.

Even better: there are girls who are also bodyguards. One nightclub in St Petersburg last year was well-known for hiring only young, attractive "sportswomen" as bouncers.

But do they want to talk to American men? I never got to find out. Somebody else will have to do the research. Make sure your medical insurance is current.

[PurrSuede 0]

Yes, I forgot that part in my previous post... kick her out of the flat!

I'd be careful about what kicking anybody out. The Russian lady could simply bring a false claim of sexual assualt against this poor guy and the miltia will have him locked up for days before they let him out. Who are they going to believe? And you don't even want to know what kind of treatment he'll get in a Russian jail cell.

And you know, just wait till they find out they can file a false claim of abuse in America and basically get handed their green-card (if they can fabricate the evidence as well...) Don't think that IMBRA isn't going to COACH them on how to do this??? HAH!

My ex-wife TRIED to fabricate a DV... she only succeeded in a "Domestic Disturbance, no evidence of violence found..." call by the local police.

It was at that moment I decided divorce was an immediate and necessary option. I wasn't going to risk having a trumped-up DV on my record, nor having to pay mucho $$$$ to defend myself from one, either

Oh yeah, you might ask, what I had done?????

I had closed the garage door while she was standing out front of the house.

Yup, that was it. We were having an arguement, and I didn't want her to see me locking the checkbook and credit cards in the car, so I closed the garage door first while she was standing outside the garage.

She didn't come to the front door, ring the door bell, knock on it, come around back, the back door was open, nothing like that...

She simply marched off, three doors down the street, to where one of our neighbors is a policeman and his patrol car was parked out front, and putting on her best "helpless Russian girl" pouty-face apparently told him: "He throws me away from house!".

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...

Don't think these women aren't "heetri" for one minute.... She was very very good at playing "poor helpless Russian woman who doesn't understand things, being treated sooooooooo badly by nasty nasty man she married..."

-- Dan, getting pissed off just thinking about it....