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Missa   0

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hey guys, i don't normally like to air out the dirty laundry so to speak but this is just bugging me.

so just to clear things up, i am Canadian my man is American. Before we met he was with this girl for about two years, live with her and everything obviously it didn't work out. when they broke up she took it hard, i mean crying, pounding at his door every night ( she had agreed to move out) she did some nasty things to his family, stole money and such, caused drama not to mention stole half of everything she thought she was entitled to from my fiance when she left including birthday presents from his own family. anyway... he meets me, we fall in love and so you might think she would get the hint? maybe not, she started hanging around with his older brothers (so she could have an excuse to come to family events maybe?) She eventually finds out about me and when i was in Michigan visiting she arrives at his house and starts pounding on the door demanding i show myself cause she was going to kick my #### and called me a home wrecker lol she's gotten random guys to call my phone and they called me every name imaginable ( she stole my fiance's phone book one day) she's waited outside of restaurants and movie theatres just to scream horrible names at me. Repeatedly my Fiance has told her he wants nothing to do with her , that they're over and to move on, so finally 6 or so months later she stops the harassment.

Things are pretty quiet. my fiance knows that she's still hanging around his older brother but whatever he's forgotten about her. we get engaged a year later! she finds out and apparently bawls and locks herself in the bathroom at my fiance's brothers house for hours. the oldest brother consoles her and they eventually start dating ( eww ). clearly she's not ever my fiance because of constant crying she does whenever she sees him even to this day , two years after they've broken up.

What more could happen with this strange girl whom I've never actually met you ask? well, she and the oldest brother are now getting married, so after all of this time and harassment she will be my sister in law. how the hell am i supposed to act civil to someone like this? maybe she won't come around because she still can't bear to look at my fiance and see us together? she still won't go into stores or to their parents house if she knows he's there, she'll wait in the car.

i had hoped that she would; like the senseless spoiled brat that she is just disappear or drive the oldest brother away but apparently he likes being emasculated and mistreated.

sigh , thanks for reading, i hope this entertains at least

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04/04/2007 met in person

22/10 2008 engaged

29/03/2009 I-129F Sent

06/04/2009 money order cashed

13/04/2009 I-129F NOA1

20/07/2009 NOA2 petition approved

08/12/2009 Packet 3 Received

08/13/2009 Packet 3 Sent

09/14/2009 Medical Toronto

06/11/2009 interview PASSED!

15/11/2009 Visa Rcvd

14/02/2010 POE Sault Ste Marie ON

26/03/2010 Married

AOS

05/10/2010 mailed

05/17/2010 check cashed

05/21/2010 NOA1 rcvd

06/15/2010 Biometrics(Grand Rapids MI)

08/20/2010 interview (approved)

ROC

08/21/2012

10/13/2012 biometric

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Rhiannercakes   14

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Wow.

That's just crazy.

I've never heard about such a desperate woman, really.

I don't really have any advice to offer, but maybe if she keeps doing this, you need to file a restraining order. I think that's what it is anyway, where they have to stay so far away from you... because it sounds like she's still hung up on your fiance and she's just dating the older brother to stay close to him.

No one should have to deal with that kind of #######.

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Udella&Wiz   325

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Wow, brutal....so what does the rest of your fiances family say about all this? They must dislike her too

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Wow. That sounds...pretty crazy.. If I were you I would object to the wedding when the JOP asks if anyone has objections. I really hope things work out for you. Take care, and give me that ex's address. :devil:

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Wow, brutal....so what does the rest of your fiances family say about all this? They must dislike her too

i'm not sure what they think about this new engagement because i just found out but i can tell you they were none too happy to find out about her dating another one of their sons. their father even talked about disowning him lol though he never would.

..The time line ..

04/04/2007 met in person

22/10 2008 engaged

29/03/2009 I-129F Sent

06/04/2009 money order cashed

13/04/2009 I-129F NOA1

20/07/2009 NOA2 petition approved

08/12/2009 Packet 3 Received

08/13/2009 Packet 3 Sent

09/14/2009 Medical Toronto

06/11/2009 interview PASSED!

15/11/2009 Visa Rcvd

14/02/2010 POE Sault Ste Marie ON

26/03/2010 Married

AOS

05/10/2010 mailed

05/17/2010 check cashed

05/21/2010 NOA1 rcvd

06/15/2010 Biometrics(Grand Rapids MI)

08/20/2010 interview (approved)

ROC

08/21/2012

10/13/2012 biometric

waiting

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Wow, brutal....so what does the rest of your fiances family say about all this? They must dislike her too

i'm not sure what they think about this new engagement because i just found out but i can tell you they were none too happy to find out about her dating another one of their sons. their father even talked about disowning him lol though he never would.

Thats just beyond psycho....and then to be getting married to him even though shes still a maniac over your fiance? I hope she actually feels something for his brother, I can see serious family drama issues arising from this one.

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Missa   0

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i could totally take her in a fight lmao when we get married my fiance and i plan to move away from that community, that solves that, oh and they don't celebrate xmas so that won't be akward but birthday uugh and thanksgiving /cringe. its going to be weird.

p.s she looks like chris crocker in the leave britany alone video

..The time line ..

04/04/2007 met in person

22/10 2008 engaged

29/03/2009 I-129F Sent

06/04/2009 money order cashed

13/04/2009 I-129F NOA1

20/07/2009 NOA2 petition approved

08/12/2009 Packet 3 Received

08/13/2009 Packet 3 Sent

09/14/2009 Medical Toronto

06/11/2009 interview PASSED!

15/11/2009 Visa Rcvd

14/02/2010 POE Sault Ste Marie ON

26/03/2010 Married

AOS

05/10/2010 mailed

05/17/2010 check cashed

05/21/2010 NOA1 rcvd

06/15/2010 Biometrics(Grand Rapids MI)

08/20/2010 interview (approved)

ROC

08/21/2012

10/13/2012 biometric

waiting

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seems what protective orders are for if it continues with u

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Her behaviour is just too creepy for words.... you both should have taken out a restraining order on her.

I can't believe your fiance's brother doesn't wonder whether she's just marrying him to get to you and your fiance.

She needs to get a life!!!

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i could totally take her in a fight lmao when we get married my fiance and i plan to move away from that community, that solves that, oh and they don't celebrate xmas so that won't be akward but birthday uugh and thanksgiving /cringe. its going to be weird.

p.s she looks like chris crocker in the leave britany alone video

I only liked it when I was pretend scared. :help: At least she doesn't look like me. :lol: Your future BIL, does he suffer from diminished mental capacity or mental defect by any chance? :bonk:

Missa, there's only one thing to do, take a deep breath, pick up the phone and dial 1-800-96-JERRY. :P

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Wow... What a crazy psycho. And your fiances brother must be living in his own world not to see she's unstable and clearly not over his brother. How can you marry someone that's still hung up on their ex? How is that a good idea?

And a very interesting question may be...is your fiances brother going to invite his own brother to the wedding, or is she controlling too?

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You need to call in some serious professional help, don't mess with amateurs, call Jerry Springer ASAP, he has been helping american families for yrs,lol Sorry for all ur troubles, hopefully it gets better

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1) Always tell the TRUTH. never lie to the POE officer

2) Be confident in ur replies

3) keep ur response short and to the point, don't tell ur life story!!

4) look the POE officer in the eye when speaking to them. They are looking for people lieing and have been trained to find them!

5) Pack light! No job resumes with you

6) Bring ties to Canada (letter from employer when ur expected back at work, lease, etc etc)

7) Always be polite, being rude isn't going to get ya anywhere, and could make things worse!!

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