how do i send my wife back to vietnam

[GREEN/TRAN 0]

today i got a phone call from some looking for there dad.My wife quit her job about 3 weeks after we broke up and turns out she didnt quit she was fired by the bosses wife. The bosses daughter called me and told me my wife had sex for money from several people some who had worked there in the past as well as the dishwasher they have now and a few customers.She also told me her dad and my wife have ran off together and hasnt been back to the reserant since my wife was fired after bosses wife found him where my wife staying. bosses daughter said her dad told his mom he loves her and wants to stay with her.So now boss of chinese chef and his wife are getting divorced now too. She says her dad is only a perment resident and have just common law with her mon for the last 25 years. My wife is a conditional resident i have filed divorced but do not have a court date yet. What do i need to do to send her back to vietnam???

Thanks

[YuAndDan 153]

First I hope this is not a troll.

Second; Your wife is here legally and is an LPR not much you can do other than:

• Report her abandoning you to USCIS Immigrations and Customs Enforcement.
• File for separation, and then wait until 2 years have passed since she got 2 year-conditional green-card, before filing for a divorce in-absentia.
• Let her go and move on.

The reason for separation vs divorce has to do with removal of conditions and the affidavit of support. Wife cannot file for removal of conditions without your cooperation, it is required to be filed jointly, unless divorced. And in the case of divorce strong proof that the marriage was entered into in good faith will be needed. If CR-Green-card expires before I-751 is filed she goes out of status, and in this case the I-864 also becomes void. Eventually deportation happens.

Edited July 9, 2009 by YuAndDan

[johncali9 6]

Hey friend

How long you and her been married you can't detransfor her go unless INS

[ScottThuy 140]

Based on what you posted here and the other info about the gambling and $$$ I have to say...

1. focus on the divorce..

2. look at it as a bad experience and put it behind you..

3. Get an HIV test ASAP.

I'm not trying to be a #######, just a realist... we all make mistakes and she was your mistake.. let it go and enjoy the rest of your life... Imagine how much pain you would still be going through if you had not taken that step to part ways.. she's out making a mess of someone elses life now not yours....Things can only get better from here... Life is a mission... you got wounded in a battle but are not out of the fight.... you know what to avoid next time....

[Sprailenes 47]

She's a PERSON not a package. You can't just "send her back"

[ScottThuy 140]

She's a PERSON not a package. You can't just "send her back"

The Person has her GC now and aint going anywhere soon... maybe jail if she gets caught selling her package...

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

Unless you think she's going to try to take you to the cleaners, the best advice is always to get the divorce and move on with your life. If you withdraw your support and don't sign the I-751, then it's up to her to try to prove the marriage was entered into in good faith.

YuAndDan's suggestion to get a legal separation is a good option. Once you're legally separated then you're protected against any further liabilities from her, such as debts. The only problem is that, in some states, she could side step the separation and file for a divorce anyway. She can't file the I-751 on her own without simultaneously requesting a waiver, and she can't do this until the marriage is terminated. In other words, she can't file if the divorce is still pending. However, she CAN get a continuance of the deportation proceedings to wait for the divorce to be concluded, and then the judge can order her conditions to be removed.

If you have strong evidence that she entered the marriage only for the purpose of immigration, and if you were not aware of this evidence at the time you were married, then you could file for an annulment on those grounds. If the marriage is annulled then the conditional green card is void, and there is no way she can get conditions removed. She'll be out of status, and she'll have to leave the US.

In order for this to succeed your evidence has to be strong, and you absolutely must not have known about this evidence when you got married. If it can be proven that you knew about the evidence then the result of the annulment petition could be that you could be charged with immigration fraud, along with your wife.

Getting an annulment is the "nuclear option", and you'll need good evidence if you expect to be successful. If she has an attorney then you can expect her to fight vigorously against the annulment because it would remove all possibility of her remaining in the US.

[john & jean 37]

two choices

1. air

2. boat

No bus, or taxicab available to there.....

[RalphandHanh 1]

today i got a phone call from some looking for there dad.My wife quit her job about 3 weeks after we broke up and turns out she didnt quit she was fired by the bosses wife. The bosses daughter called me and told me my wife had sex for money from several people some who had worked there in the past as well as the dishwasher they have now and a few customers.She also told me her dad and my wife have ran off together and hasnt been back to the reserant since my wife was fired after bosses wife found him where my wife staying. bosses daughter said her dad told his mom he loves her and wants to stay with her.So now boss of chinese chef and his wife are getting divorced now too. She says her dad is only a perment resident and have just common law with her mon for the last 25 years. My wife is a conditional resident i have filed divorced but do not have a court date yet. What do i need to do to send her back to vietnam???

Thanks

that really sucks to hear. Legal separation isn't needed now since she has been gone for a few months. The divorce is the right thing to do. I would contact INS and explain the situation and see what they say. Give them the heads up if she didn't get her green card yet - so that when she files for it they will know the deal.

Other than that, focus on Your future. The past is the past and you can't change it. It's hard to forgive and forget. TRUST me I know. I still have moments remembering what my ex did to me and all the ####### I went through. The sooner you can forget her and move on the better off you will be.

I have read your other posts. I would also say Don't Rush Into Anything Else right now. Emotions and feelings are still raw. Take time to heal. It is SO important to do. I know that you might want to get into another relationship and I know the loneliness. But I think its time to step back... chill... feel everything that you are going through... process it and then you can really move on with out looking back and all the could have - should have and would have's. I will keep you in my prayers and I pray that you can get past this is record time.

[GREEN/TRAN 0]

Hey friend

How long you and her been married you can't detransfor her go unless INS

it wil be 2 years july 18th. bosses daughter says she knows for a fct my wife was unfaithel since a few months after she came to usa. She said my wife tells everyone i beat her but no one ever saw any bruises.

[calilove 0]

Hey friend

How long you and her been married you can't detransfor her go unless INS

it wil be 2 years july 18th. bosses daughter says she knows for a fct my wife was unfaithel since a few months after she came to usa. She said my wife tells everyone i beat her but no one ever saw any bruises.

may i ask you a question? have she ever sell her body in vietnam for money? if so, then it wouldnt be surprising about what she did to you bro

[GREEN/TRAN 0]

Hey friend

How long you and her been married you can't detransfor her go unless INS

it wil be 2 years july 18th. bosses daughter says she knows for a fct my wife was unfaithel since a few months after she came to usa. She said my wife tells everyone i beat her but no one ever saw any bruises.

yeah but right now im not working i would like to find a job in wichita where i grew up but i think i need to go to vietnam and relax for a while. anyw3ays i was worried sick about my wife but i guess shes ok. booses wife just called and offered any money for lawyer for divorced or get her out of country if i need

[TomT2566 1]

today i got a phone call from some looking for there dad.My wife quit her job about 3 weeks after we broke up and turns out she didnt quit she was fired by the bosses wife. The bosses daughter called me and told me my wife had sex for money from several people some who had worked there in the past as well as the dishwasher they have now and a few customers.She also told me her dad and my wife have ran off together and hasnt been back to the reserant since my wife was fired after bosses wife found him where my wife staying. bosses daughter said her dad told his mom he loves her and wants to stay with her.So now boss of chinese chef and his wife are getting divorced now too. She says her dad is only a perment resident and have just common law with her mon for the last 25 years. My wife is a conditional resident i have filed divorced but do not have a court date yet. What do i need to do to send her back to vietnam???

Thanks

some[one] said...

Let me see if I understand this correctly. The pretty woman in your avatar photo is a prostitute who had sex with the dishwasher, former employees and customers. Moreover, her boss, who had to know what was going on in his own restaurant, loves her and wants to stay with her, even though he was last in line. Yep, this story sounds perfectly reasonable to me.

[TomT2566 1]

yeah but right now im not working i would like to find a job in wichita where i grew up but i think i need to go to vietnam and relax for a while. anyw3ays i was worried sick about my wife but i guess shes ok. booses wife just called and offered any money for lawyer for divorced or get her out of country if i need

You aren't working and you need financial help from "booses wife" for your divorce, yet, instead of looking for work, you are going to Vietnam to "relax." I don't suppose that "relax" is an euphemism for using prostitutes, is it?

[Saska+Tim 7]