can my husband take his sponsorship back??

[shanti2007 0]

i ve been married to this person for 3 years, he is US citizen.

i interviewed in may and got visa approval for IR1.

now i ve got problems with him and his family

(they are asking for big dowry and money that i shud bring with me to states)

otherwise he ll take his sponsorship back.

---can he take his sponsorship back at this time.

i cannt divorce him as i donnt want to be cosidered as social outcast in my country.

---shud i got to states on this visa, or he can create problems later on as well.

im new to this forum, a friend suggested this to me.

thank u in advance for all the suggestions>>

[R and F 34]

He and his family want money from you because he got you a visa? wht wht wht

[shanti2007 0]

noo...its common practise in india...that girls parents give her husband some money and furniture,household stuff etc to start their life together.

its called dowry.

but he is asking for far too much money than my parents can afford.

[Mononoke28 134]

If you receive an IR1 visa then you will get your 10 year green card in the mail and there isn't anything your husband or his family can do to force you out of the US. Try to keep evidence that your marriage is bonafide though.

But if you get a CR1 visa you will receive a 2 year conditional green card and two years later you will have to remove conditions. You can remove conditions on your own, meaning you still don't have to be married to him to do so but again, you will have to prove that your married for love.

Diana

[Chica Yeyé 41]

If you receive an IR1 visa then you will get your 10 year green card in the mail and there isn't anything your husband or his family can do to force you out of the US. Try to keep evidence that your marriage is bonafide though.

But if you get a CR1 visa you will receive a 2 year conditional green card and two years later you will have to remove conditions. You can remove conditions on your own, meaning you still don't have to be married to him to do so but again, you will have to prove that your married for love.

Diana

But chica, she is still in India - meaning she has to come over FIRST in order to activate her IR1 and receive her greencard.

[Bobby+Umit 161]

He can take it back prior to the interview (which would stop your process most likely).

However, once you get the greencard, he cannot take it back (either one, greencard or affidavit).

Since you are doing an IR-1, if it is approved, I believe that will lock in the affidavit, as you will get your greencard immediately with the approval of the visa (which is one of the perks of this type of visa, no waiting for the greencard).

If you come here with the visa, he could create problems, but nothing to prevent you from staying in the states, as his affidavit will be locked in. You would be free to divorce him as you see fit.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

He can take it back prior to the interview (which would stop your process most likely).

However, once you get the greencard, he cannot take it back (either one, greencard or affidavit).

Since you are doing an IR-1, if it is approved, I believe that will lock in the affidavit, as you will get your greencard immediately with the approval of the visa (which is one of the perks of this type of visa, no waiting for the greencard).

If you come here with the visa, he could create problems, but nothing to prevent you from staying in the states, as his affidavit will be locked in. You would be free to divorce him as you see fit.

Se was already approved brother. So all she needs to do, really, is come over to the US and activate her IR1. Problem would be with domicile, wouldn't it? they would send the card to the address where the husband lives.

[Bobby+Umit 161]

If you receive an IR1 visa then you will get your 10 year green card in the mail and there isn't anything your husband or his family can do to force you out of the US. Try to keep evidence that your marriage is bonafide though.

But if you get a CR1 visa you will receive a 2 year conditional green card and two years later you will have to remove conditions. You can remove conditions on your own, meaning you still don't have to be married to him to do so but again, you will have to prove that your married for love.

Diana

But chica, she is still in India - meaning she has to come over FIRST in order to activate her IR1 and receive her greencard.

Correct - the visa will be enough - she just will need to come here... (more coffee)

The advantage of this type of Visa is that it has the Green Card essentially “built in” to the visa. When your spouse is processed through immigration at her point of entry into the US the stamp in her passport is essentially her temporary green card until one is issued by the government. It usually takes about two months for the government to issue the green card to the spouse.

He can take it back prior to the interview (which would stop your process most likely).

However, once you get the greencard, he cannot take it back (either one, greencard or affidavit).

Since you are doing an IR-1, if it is approved, I believe that will lock in the affidavit, as you will get your greencard immediately with the approval of the visa (which is one of the perks of this type of visa, no waiting for the greencard).

If you come here with the visa, he could create problems, but nothing to prevent you from staying in the states, as his affidavit will be locked in. You would be free to divorce him as you see fit.

Se was already approved brother. So all she needs to do, really, is come over to the US and activate her IR1. Problem would be with domicile, wouldn't it? they would send the card to the address where the husband lives.

Ack -- needs more coffee says I!

Then she is good to go!

Edited June 5, 2009 by Bobby_Umit

[Mononoke28 134]

Right, as long as she enters the US she will automatically get permanent residency. She can still change her address with the USCIS by filling out form AR11. But the residency is for hers to keep once she arrives.

Diana

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Right, as long as she enters the US she will automatically get permanent residency. She can still change her address with the USCIS by filling out form AR11. But the residency is for hers to keep once she arrives.

Diana

Exactly.

[YuAndDan 153]

Right, as long as she enters the US she will automatically get permanent residency. She can still change her address with the USCIS by filling out form AR11. But the residency is for hers to keep once she arrives.

Diana

Also upon entry to the USA a new address can be provided to the POE officer, and more than likely the Green-card will be sent there, If not then an I-90 could be filed to get a replacement green-card. Edited June 5, 2009 by YuAndDan

[Rehan 0]

i ve been married to this person for 3 years, he is US citizen.

i interviewed in may and got visa approval for IR1.

now i ve got problems with him and his family

(they are asking for big dowry and money that i shud bring with me to states)

otherwise he ll take his sponsorship back.

---can he take his sponsorship back at this time.

i cannt divorce him as i donnt want to be cosidered as social outcast in my country.

---shud i got to states on this visa, or he can create problems later on as well.

im new to this forum, a friend suggested this to me.

thank u in advance for all the suggestions>>

I don't know why you wanted to get marry with such a person and now you will also need to deal with his family.

Anyway, just to answer your question, before you come to the US, yes, he can go to the embassy or contact them through email and can cancel your visa OR create problems for your visa because you are still in India. However, if you come here with IR1 visa and recieve your 10 Years green card, then, he can not do anything.

Good luck!!

Edited June 5, 2009 by Rehan

[shanti2007 0]

im in india.. my visa is approved.

so i ve to travel to states to get permenet status...

he can cancel my visa at this time while im in india?

[Rehan 0]

Right, as long as she enters the US she will automatically get permanent residency. She can still change her address with the USCIS by filling out form AR11. But the residency is for hers to keep once she arrives.

Diana

Also upon entry to the USA a new address can be provided to the POE officer, and more than likely the Green-card will be sent there, If not then an I-90 could be filed to get a replacement green-card.

It is correct. Also, what she can do is that after coming here, she can change her address with USPS and all her mail will be forwarded to her new address!!

[shanti2007 0]

thank u guys for all the suggestions...

and i think im going to give up this immigration thing. i cannot go thru all of this alone in states...i ve no close relatives there.

and people plz donnot judge others...as u dont know others circumstances...