Is it ok to go out tonight with friends

[adam1 1]

My friends from college invited me to go out with them to an international party tonight, I want to go but I don't know if my wife will like it or not. She overseas waiting on her visa and I'm here waiting to. I ask her one time and she said just live you normal life and be happy. The problem is she doesn't know that if I go out to club nights I will have to dance with girls and that's one thing that I can't help Hip Hop

Help me out here I don't want to lie, at the same time want to go out, I can go out but not dance and that's hard to!

or should I ask for permission?

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Dude, just don't tell her. #######. Has everyone lost their damn minds?

[ashenflowers 5]

Why do you HAVE to dance with other girls? Can't you just dance by yourself?

[Peikko 1,575]

There's nothing wrong with dancing with whoever, but if you need to ask permission? Seems like the OP is worried about their own behaviour - going out and doing normal things is not a relationship crime.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Why do you HAVE to dance with other girls? Can't you just dance by yourself?

If he rubs against himself in a club they'll throw him out. I don't think they allow masturbation.

[childress_london 3]

I appreciate it when my husband asks me about these things. Then I feel like he's not doing it behind my back and I don't have to be paranoid. I would tell him go, but NO dancing with other girls!!! lol You could always dance with a group of friends versus dancing with just one person. I've danced by myself many times.

[Peikko 1,575]

I guess all those ballroom dancers are married then? Sheesh, dancing is not sex.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

I guess all those ballroom dancers are married then? Sheesh, dancing is not sex.

To be fair - in nightclubs it often leads to it.

[childress_london 3]

Maybe this should have been posted in the MENA forum.

[adam1 1]

I'm confused now??????!!!!!!!!!!!

[ashenflowers 5]

Why do you HAVE to dance with other girls? Can't you just dance by yourself?

If he rubs against himself in a club they'll throw him out. I don't think they allow masturbation.

Depends what kind of club he's going to....

[childress_london 3]

No ballroom dancing for my man.

[ashenflowers 5]

I guess all those ballroom dancers are married then? Sheesh, dancing is not sex.

To be fair - in nightclubs it often leads to it.

Agreed, nightclub dancing with randoms is VERY different than other types of dancing....

[amberdima 6]

looks like you have a very short timeline. you haven't been waiting long and probably don't have much longer.

when i first started this wait- i tried the 'sit at home like a good little wifey #######.' that didn't last long. i would have been on psych meds by now if i didn't go have fun. do what ya gotta do, but know you're limits. however, you are already married. i think your limits are more limited

now, when he gets here---neither one of us are dancing with anyone but each other ever again.

Edited April 10, 2009 by amberdima

[Peikko 1,575]

I guess all those ballroom dancers are married then? Sheesh, dancing is not sex.

To be fair - in nightclubs it often leads to it.

So does going out and having a few drinks. If you are looking for sex, you can find it anywhere, if you are not then even doing something as riske as shock horror dancing, it will not.