Fraud???

[Jaminzel 0]

Hi VJ People,

I have an unusual situation here, my brother found out that I was sending my fiance money, after had warned me not to, so he Emailed me and told me that he was going to notify both embassies in the Philippines of this, I have repeatedly tried to contact him to find out if he was only bluffing, but he refuses to return my Emails. Well, here it is about a year later and we are about to go to our interview in Manila, and on top of all the normal stress from the setbacks we've experienced, we are about to find out If he actually did carry out his threat. What kind of accusations could he have made?, What kind of trouble can we expect to receive? If anyone could give us any advice it would be more than greatly appreciated, this has been eating away at us for a very long time.

Thanks,

Ben

[pinktulips2012 1]

Hi VJ People,

I have an unusual situation here, my brother found out that I was sending my fiance money, after had warned me not to, so he Emailed me and told me that he was going to notify both embassies in the Philippines of this, I have repeatedly tried to contact him to find out if he was only bluffing, but he refuses to return my Emails. Well, here it is about a year later and we are about to go to our interview in Manila, and on top of all the normal stress from the setbacks we've experienced, we are about to find out If he actually did carry out his threat. What kind of accusations could he have made?, What kind of trouble can we expect to receive? If anyone could give us any advice it would be more than greatly appreciated, this has been eating away at us for a very long time.

Thanks,

Ben

hi Ben!

it's not big deal. actually, the embassy will ask some proof of money transfer like western union receipts, or bank statements. just bring your receipts during the time you send money to your fiance.

goodluck

Edited November 16, 2008 by stevent

[Jaminzel 0]

Hi VJ People,

I have an unusual situation here, my brother found out that I was sending my fiance money, after had warned me not to, so he Emailed me and told me that he was going to notify both embassies in the Philippines of this, I have repeatedly tried to contact him to find out if he was only bluffing, but he refuses to return my Emails. Well, here it is about a year later and we are about to go to our interview in Manila, and on top of all the normal stress from the setbacks we've experienced, we are about to find out If he actually did carry out his threat. What kind of accusations could he have made?, What kind of trouble can we expect to receive? If anyone could give us any advice it would be more than greatly appreciated, this has been eating away at us for a very long time.

Thanks,

Ben

hi Ben!

it's not big deal. actually, the embassy will ask some proof of money transfer like western union receipts, or bank statements. just bring your receipts during the time you send money to your fiance.

goodluck

Hi Stevent,

My fiance and myself are a nervous wreck over this. Thanks for those encouraging words.

Ben

[pinktulips2012 1]

Hi VJ People,

I have an unusual situation here, my brother found out that I was sending my fiance money, after had warned me not to, so he Emailed me and told me that he was going to notify both embassies in the Philippines of this, I have repeatedly tried to contact him to find out if he was only bluffing, but he refuses to return my Emails. Well, here it is about a year later and we are about to go to our interview in Manila, and on top of all the normal stress from the setbacks we've experienced, we are about to find out If he actually did carry out his threat. What kind of accusations could he have made?, What kind of trouble can we expect to receive? If anyone could give us any advice it would be more than greatly appreciated, this has been eating away at us for a very long time.

Thanks,

Ben

hi Ben!

it's not big deal. actually, the embassy will ask some proof of money transfer like western union receipts, or bank statements. just bring your receipts during the time you send money to your fiance.

goodluck

Hi Stevent,

My fiance and myself are a nervous wreck over this. Thanks for those encouraging words.

Ben

you're welcome!

[Dakine 26]

As long as you have proof of a ongoing loving bonafide relationship you won't have problems.

[sunandmoon 450]

the best thing is to try to reassure your fiance that everything is fine. besides the evidence of ongoing relationship, try to go to the interview relaxed, with a positve attitude and give honest answers to questions asked. the only thing the threats have done is cause you undue stress.

[William33 110]

Hi VJ People,

I have an unusual situation here, my brother found out that I was sending my fiance money, after had warned me not to, so he Emailed me and told me that he was going to notify both embassies in the Philippines of this, I have repeatedly tried to contact him to find out if he was only bluffing, but he refuses to return my Emails. Well, here it is about a year later and we are about to go to our interview in Manila, and on top of all the normal stress from the setbacks we've experienced, we are about to find out If he actually did carry out his threat. What kind of accusations could he have made?, What kind of trouble can we expect to receive? If anyone could give us any advice it would be more than greatly appreciated, this has been eating away at us for a very long time.

Thanks,

Ben

No trouble at all. As others pointed out, this activity (sending money to your Fiance) will play out in your favor. Relax and get your paperwork, evidence and so forth together.

Edited November 16, 2008 by William33

[AllRightsReserved 0]

The least I expected that would be asked from me are the money remittances but it was one of those the pre-screener asked first.LOL. So that could be a plus in a way.LOL.

Good luck!

[Jose Rizal 1]

What kind of trouble can we expect to receive? If anyone could give us any advice it would be more than greatly appreciated, this has been eating away at us for a very long time.

Thanks,

Ben

As long as there is a bona fide relationship, there is nothing wrong with your case. The other posters have already said that it will be in your favor. IMO, the real trouble I foresee is the further strained relationship with you and your brother. I hope you'll also be able to work that out.

[HappyDancer 7]

Ditto on everyone else's statements. Your brother can not have any say in these things. Let him make a fool out of himself for trying to turn the tables. He'll realize or probably already realized he's talking to a wall. Enjoy and gloat over his disappointments. LOL

[lady23 0]

same to me pre-screener asked money remittances, Western union and money gram and have many of remittances lol

[vichygurl 1]

Actually he is doing you a favor. You just need to prove that the relationship is real. Same thing happened to me.. it's funny Not a family member but the X wife. So much of the threat that i got and continually spying on me ( iba talaga ang ganda ng pinay,hahahaha) ..I end up thinking who would listen to the X wife? I am now in the process of my conditional GC. Crossing my fingers with no interview because it was transferred to CSC.

As what others said.. don't worry! Assure her it's not a mess as long as you two are in a real commitment no one can ruin.

[Jaminzel 0]

As long as you have proof of a ongoing loving bonafide relationship you won't have problems.

Hi Haole,

yes, we easily have that kind of proof.

Thanks Ben

[Jaminzel 0]

the best thing is to try to reassure your fiance that everything is fine. besides the evidence of ongoing relationship, try to go to the interview relaxed, with a positve attitude and give honest answers to questions asked. the only thing the threats have done is cause you undue stress.

Hi sunandmoon,

My fianc'e keeps telling me to have a positive attitude too, I have to agree.

Thanks, Ben

[Jaminzel 0]

Hi VJ People,

I have an unusual situation here, my brother found out that I was sending my fiance money, after had warned me not to, so he Emailed me and told me that he was going to notify both embassies in the Philippines of this, I have repeatedly tried to contact him to find out if he was only bluffing, but he refuses to return my Emails. Well, here it is about a year later and we are about to go to our interview in Manila, and on top of all the normal stress from the setbacks we've experienced, we are about to find out If he actually did carry out his threat. What kind of accusations could he have made?, What kind of trouble can we expect to receive? If anyone could give us any advice it would be more than greatly appreciated, this has been eating away at us for a very long time.

Thanks,

Ben

No trouble at all. As others pointed out, this activity (sending money to your Fiance) will play out in your favor. Relax and get your paperwork, evidence and so forth together.

Hi William 33,

wow, there is no shortage of receipts, or any other kind of evidence.

Thanks, Ben