Long Distance relationship !!

[Uncle O 2]

I am wondering if someone can't handle a long distance relation then why are they in one? If the person asked MANY times if they were able to handle such a relationship and the other said "absolutly YES" then why after a long period of time they say the cannot handle it? There was a simple mistake made and the other person left! I am just wondering how this can be done in the first place? All relationships have problems at one point or another why after only one mistake is it all of a sudden over ?

and By the way things much diffrent in person !! who is agree with this ?

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

maybe it's you?

[Uncle O 2]

Excuse me Charlie ?

maybe it's you?

[Tunisia216 2]

Charlie Can I call you that from now on?? PLEASE!!

Excuse me Charlie ?

maybe it's you?

Edited August 31, 2008 by Ash * Habibati

[Uncle O 2]

O0O0OPS ! CHARLES! LMAO AT ASH

Charlie Can I call you that from now on?? PLEASE!!

Excuse me Charlie ?

maybe it's you?

[S and S 12]

I think some mistakes are easier to forgive than others. My husband and I have had many fights, probably worse than the one you all of had. We've said and done some things neither of us are proud of, but slowly over time we worked it all out. We know what is okay to say and do and what is not okay. I have learned to forgive him and he forgives me. Now our arguments are fewer and far between and not nearly as severe, usually silly things we don't even stay upset about for long. Thank God we got past our difficult times because we are still not together and have no idea when that may be.

Some people cannot handle some offenses or believe it could get worse. My gut instinct told me that my husband is a good man and we make some mistakes. I know I do sometimes. Sometimes if you lose someone's trust it takes time to get it back and some people may never get it back. In your case, it is up to her, she has to do what she thinks is right. I am sorry things have gone badly for you both and hope that whatever is best for your case happens. Allah knows best.

[~Jackie~ 30]

I guess it depends on how big the mistake was.

Jackie

(did he just call you charlie? rotflmfao )

Edited September 1, 2008 by just_Jackie

[Brad and Vika 129]

How about Chuck? Let's have some clarity here!!

[~Jackie~ 30]

Never call him Chuck if ya want him to answer

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

Never call him Chuck if ya want him to answer

after reading this thread some more, maybe the op's gal didn't like having her name mangled.

[Uncle O 2]

You`re right . every Couple in this world have fights and arguemenst ! and they work it out !

we are not ANGELS came from heaven ! we are human !

But here the issue : if the person learn his lesson and never do that mistake again ! here the big challenge !

and if the person want to proof somthing ! he could do it ! if he want to !

so its an good idea to give him that chance to proof what he say ! and what he wanna do !

but not Judging on him that he will will do his mistake again and thats that !

I think some mistakes are easier to forgive than others. My husband and I have had many fights, probably worse than the one you all of had. We've said and done some things neither of us are proud of, but slowly over time we worked it all out. We know what is okay to say and do and what is not okay. I have learned to forgive him and he forgives me. Now our arguments are fewer and far between and not nearly as severe, usually silly things we don't even stay upset about for long. Thank God we got past our difficult times because we are still not together and have no idea when that may be.

Some people cannot handle some offenses or believe it could get worse. My gut instinct told me that my husband is a good man and we make some mistakes. I know I do sometimes. Sometimes if you lose someone's trust it takes time to get it back and some people may never get it back. In your case, it is up to her, she has to do what she thinks is right. I am sorry things have gone badly for you both and hope that whatever is best for your case happens. Allah knows best.

[sarahaziz 0]

We're together now , but we were apart for longer than a year and our bond got closer and deeper than ever. I think someone going through this kind of problem is someone who rushed into marriage. I'm kind of sick of hearing these kind of stories cuz we all know where they all end up at. Sorry not to offend anyone it's probably just me.

[Tunisia216 2]

Maybe but I really really like it - maybe it'll stick?

Never call him Chuck if ya want him to answer

after reading this thread some more, maybe the op's gal didn't like having her name mangled.

[~Jackie~ 30]

Odai---Kristen asked for space.

Space, not you posting here yet AGAIN about your breakup. I do not think you want everyone here to know the real reason your engagement is OVER. Right ?

jJ

[Tunisia216 2]

I get what you are saying but what other people here are saying is that it depends on what the mistake is.

And no I am not asking you, that is private and personal. What I am saying is there are various degrees of mistakes, some are forgivable and some are not - and that is different for every person and every couple.. What SS was saying.

You`re right . every Couple in this world have fights and arguemenst ! and they work it out !

we are not ANGELS came from heaven ! we are human !

But here the issue : if the person learn his lesson and never do that mistake again ! here the big challenge !

and if the person want to proof somthing ! he could do it ! if he want to !

so its an good idea to give him that chance to proof what he say ! and what he wanna do !

but not Judging on him that he will will do his mistake again and thats that !

I think some mistakes are easier to forgive than others. My husband and I have had many fights, probably worse than the one you all of had. We've said and done some things neither of us are proud of, but slowly over time we worked it all out. We know what is okay to say and do and what is not okay. I have learned to forgive him and he forgives me. Now our arguments are fewer and far between and not nearly as severe, usually silly things we don't even stay upset about for long. Thank God we got past our difficult times because we are still not together and have no idea when that may be.

Some people cannot handle some offenses or believe it could get worse. My gut instinct told me that my husband is a good man and we make some mistakes. I know I do sometimes. Sometimes if you lose someone's trust it takes time to get it back and some people may never get it back. In your case, it is up to her, she has to do what she thinks is right. I am sorry things have gone badly for you both and hope that whatever is best for your case happens. Allah knows best.