why do africans use american woman for marriage

[uneedme33 0]

just wanted to start this topic to get some feedback on this story because it is ongoing everyday and i would like to know what you think of this out here i want to know why so many africans use american women for marriage and then after the 2 year wait then they bring their spouse over here they start a realtionship with these american women and have babies with them and all along they have wives back home and taking care of two wives and it is very unfair to the women peroid i know people that have been through this and i just want to know how do they slip through the cracks of the ins when they divorce one then petition the court to bring thier spouse over here this should be illegal and i really thought it was but this is very common and i just want to know what you think of this because it is very wrong and not right to be happening like this they come here and find a woman pretend to be in love with her and give her babies and then staywith her for 2 years and then dump her for unknown reason just walk away to bring the other woman from their country over here so anyone that would like to debate this question come on and lets chat.

[LiszyandKenny 5]

Edited June 8, 2008 by LiszyandKenny

[LaL 418]

*Feverishly scans the post for any sign of a period, comma or caps*

oh, futile attempt - it's one sentance!

Edited June 8, 2008 by LaL

[SaadBell 0]

Fraud is rampant, mostly from third world countries; escape from poverty is a great motivator

[warriorprincess 0]

LMAO!!!!! Do you really need to ask that question?

[Mr. Big Dog 10,747]

[uneedme33 0]

LMAO!!!!! Do you really need to ask that question?

if you dont like what i have to say don't comment to my post

[uneedme33 0]

LMAO!!!!! Do you really need to ask that question?

people just hate to hear the truth

you are funny

[Ms.Me 0]

I agree with what has been said before, I guess they want out of poverty. Unfortunately it's not just africans that do this and this can make us genuine couples process take even longer

[warriorprincess 0]

LMAO!!!!! Do you really need to ask that question?

if you dont like what i have to say don't comment to my post

LMAO!!!!! Do you really need to ask that question?

people just hate to hear the truth

Apparently you didn't understand my response. I was asking a rethorical question. That is a question where the answer is very obvious. There is only ONE reason these men marry american women and that is for the green card. I wasn't taking offense to your post.

[Gaby&Talbert 1]

women have married men forever for money or social status and in the US women have all the advantages in the courts. If he comes here and she has children he will be obligated to pay child support for those children.

[Mr. Big Dog 10,747]

women have married men forever for money or social status and in the US women have all the advantages in the courts. If he comes here and she has children he will be obligated to pay child support for those children.

It's neither about the courts nor about the money - children need more than that; they need two parents to raise them.

[uneedme33 0]

listen if you don't like what i have to say then don't come here leaving your rude comments this is something that is happening everyday and women are getting used and abuse and i know some and i feel like something needs to be done about this and i am just leaving my two cents

Edited June 8, 2008 by uneedme33

[I luv my chappara 0]

yah definitely that is wrong.

Guys who are like those, should be put in hot jail their balls will be cook

Edited June 8, 2008 by I luv my chappara

[uneedme33 0]

yah definitely that is wrong.

Guys who are like those, should be put in hot jail their balls will be cook

that's all i'm saying because people do get hurt and it's not fair to you or the kids that you bring into this world because what will they say when daddy walks away and goes back to the first wife so i am not trying to hurt anyone's feelings just trying to get some feedback on this issue because it happens everyday