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I think I'm in trouble. I think I am still in love with my ex-husband :(:crying: I left him because I met Osiris online. But my husband is here, and Osiris is there and so completely untouchable. I don't know what to do. Christopher is married now to another woman, maybe I've lost him too. I was his high school sweetheart, and we were married for a long time...and my feelings for him are still there. Osiris was new, exciting, exotic and romantic, and I think maybe that's what I fell for. Osiris seems a little too exotic for me right now. What I need is comfort and familiarity. The visa process is too grueling, I don't think I can do the expense or the emotional turmoil of the process. I may need to get away for awhile. And to think I started my Myspace page to feel closer to him...and he can't even get online to add me as a friend :(:help:

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The process is long and hard and makes you second guess yourself all the time. You ex-husband is really not all that accessible as he is married to someone else. Maybe he just reminds you of simplier times.

Talk to your fiance about this. Hang in there. The process does eventually end and you can then move on with your life.

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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All I can say is I pray that God will help you see what is right for you and all involved.

Jul 20, 2006 Arrived in Amman, Jordan

Jul 24, 2006 Married in Amman, Jordan

Oct 11, 2006 I130 Approval Oct. 26, 2006 I129F Approval

Nov. 8, 2006 Recieved letter that I-129 was sent to Amman, Jordan

Dec 13, 2006 Recieved Package from Amman Embassy for K3 Intreview date Aug. 15,2007

Mar 05,2007 Embassy called interview scheduled for March 19th

Mar 19, 2007 Interview for K3- AP

May 20, 2007 Embassy called for Hasan to send in his passport!!!

May 24, 2007 Recieved Interview date of June 5th for CR1?

June 05, 2007 Interviewed and she said he was approved, kept passport and said will recieve in 4 days.

June 12, 2007 VISA IN HAND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

June 21, 2007 Hasan arrived in the USA and so very happy!

June 26, 2007 Applied for SSN

July 06, 2007 SSN in hand

July 25, 2007 Green Card in Hand!

Aug 13, 2007 Behind the wheel test, Passed. Now has California DL

I-751

Mar 26, 2009 Sent in I-751

Mar 28, 2009 Proof received

April 1, 2009 check cashed

April 3, 2009 NOA Received

April 16,2009 received bio appt letter

April 24, 2009 Biometrics Appointment

June 6, 2009 Removal of Conditions Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

July 17, 2009 10 Year Green Card in hand!

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jeanie,

I wish you the best in this...the immigration process is one that tests your strenght for sure..I think I have lost at least a few brain cells over the process!! haha...Tarek might say more..haha...I would suggest taking a step back from everything and finding out what you really want and what is best for you. Process the feelings for the ex...are they real, or are they a result of your man being so very far away?

I wish you the best with it all!!!! I know the connections are terrible and that adds its whole set of issues.....take care of yourself!!!! Hugs, Melinda :)

“Hold on to the center and make up your mind to rejoice in this paradise called life.” ~ Lao-tzu

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Are you sure this is the place you want to come for advice? I see a huge explosion coming, be prepared.

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride'

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Dr. A ♥ O   203

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The grass is always greener on the other side.

You've already moved on from your ex-Husband. Sometimes it's nice to reminisce but MENA men don't like to hear about past men in your life so I wouldn't advise sharing it with him. If you're not to sure about your new man well that is one thing but if it's just the trials of the visa process that have got you then hell we all go through that.

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IS THERE A FULL MOON...THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE..JUST A DIFFERENT VARIETY and all grass has weeds at sometime

TIMELINE

04/04/2007 K1 Interview from H...w/the devil herself

06/12/2007 Rec'd Notification Case Now Back In Calif. only to expire

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11/20/2007 Married in Morocco

02/23/2008 Mailed CR1 application today

03/08/2008 NOA1 Notice Recd (notice date 3/4/08)

08/26/2008 File transfered fr Vermont to Calif

10/14/2008 APPROVALLLLLLLLLLLL

10/20/2008 Recd hard copy NOA2

10/20/2008 NVC Recd case

11/21/2008 CASE COMPLETE

01/15/2009 INTERVIEW

01/16/2009 VISA IN HAND

01/31/2009 ARRIVED OKC

BE WHO YOU ARE AND SAY WHAT YOU FEEL, BECAUSE THOSE WHO MIND DONT MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DONT MIND

YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT YOU CAN RUIN THE PRESENT BY WORRYING OVER THE FUTURE

TRIP.... OVER LOVE, AND YOU CAN GET UP

FALL.... IN LOVE, AND YOU FALL FOREVER

I DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT, JUST NOT THE ABILITY

LIKE THE MEASLES, LOVE IS MOST DANGEROUS WHEN IT COMES LATER IN LIFE

LIFE IS NOT THE WAY ITS SUPPOSED TO BE, ITS THE WAY IT IS

I MAY NOT BE WHERE I WANT TO BE BUT IM SURE NOT WHERE I WAS

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Dr. A ♥ O Grand Master

Dr. A ♥ O   203

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Hoooooooooooooooowl! :lol:

IS THERE A FULL MOON...THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE..JUST A DIFFERENT VARIETY and all grass has weeds at sometime

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